Canuck Wisdom

Negative thought patterns are indeed bad, because we are always collecting information on our environment, our circumstances and our mental organization, conscious or programed, the abstraction of events. When you characterize experiences as negative, its like your spending time developing those skills and habits.
As if all time, all thoughts, because they happen, are a part of the exercise of becoming who you are.

Now, this experience is based around the beliefs about real events that characterize those events, making them positive or negative. The individual who has the experience surely sees it in their own light, but this does not mean the event itself experienced was not objective.

Even mental things could fall under this category 'objective'. If something is a common understanding, it is experienced by the individual as a common understanding and compelling them to understand likewise. Therefore, this understanding is an objectively shared event, between those who experience, but apparently, also create.

So, this is basically my argument for an objective reality. I hope it made sense, I wrote it as a break from my schoolwork because I hit a single b and got way more stoned than expected, needed a break and had some negative thoughts about earlier events.

I make a few assumptions it seems to me here. One being that there is an individual with a soul sort of idea which is the 'you' that experiences objective and subjective, and knows on some level when a judgment is made or when something is accepted for what it truly is.

I also think this understanding makes a good case for the importance of a good belief set, or habit.
One that does not enable mental traps which keep the truth of objective events unrelated to your interpretation of it (these mental traps being aspects of the 'ego').
It is my, likely biased opinion, that these mental traps (which remove you from truth, therefore generating confusion, frustration and related symptoms) are best avoided through love.
By forgiving others, you don't get caught up on emotionally generated opinions and acknowledge their behavior for what it is.
By having grace, faith, you accept who you are and the world around you, not getting emotionally snagged on your role, but seeing who you truly are and why its perfect.
Because reality is perfectly reality, perfectly true, unflawed by its nature, it must be unconditionally loving. Unconditional love doesn't lie or take anything away from you it tells the perfect truth. By sharing in love we gain the loving understanding of perfect truth.

In this way we are closer to objective reality, not abstracting real events too far out of focus for emotional or pre-conditioned reasons, but understanding and being close to the truth.

Stoned ramblings for ya'll anyways, I hope I conveyed what I am trying to say.

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