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Originally Posted by shelbert008
so I was talking to my boyfriend (possibly soon to be ex) today and everything was going pretty normal, we were talking about this hookah bar that he went to last night. Then pretty much out of nowhere he texts me and tells me that he asked out this chick on Thursday and she said yes but then he caught her kissing some other dude. Then he sent me another text saying that he didn't really care because she was "out of his age limit". What the fuck? All I could say was "why the hell are you telling me this". Man, I'm still pretty irritated by it. He was just like "well I felt like I needed to be honest with you", which I certainly appreciate, but still. It just really pisses me off, this guy was all like "I really like you and I just want to be with you, will you go steady with me and be my girlfriend" and yet he's going around probably using the exact same line. It's like he doesn't understand that I didn't have to be faithful to him, there were plenty of guys continuing to go after me after I had started dating him. I don't know, I'm just aggravated at the moment. I don't understand why I keep ending up with guys like this, my last boyfriend is starting to look pretty good at the moment.
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i didn't read the other replies to this thread but... why are you so easy to get into relationships with people? didn't you just break up with a guy not long ago??
my personal believe is if we aren't gonna get married eventually some day, then why be in an exclusive relationship... if we're both really obsessed with eachother and both think there's potential for marriage someday, and we know eachother and trust eachother, then & only then will i be in an exlusive relationship (because at that point, it wouldn't even be something either of us would have to think about, it would just happen)... otherwise, lets just date & have fun & leave it at that & whatever happens, happens...
in all seriousness, why even bother getting into relationships with a person you know you aren't going to marry? its gay.. and posts like these are the exact reason why i'm the way i am.. how can you commit to a relationship with someone you don't even really know? it's crazy and IMO a bit immature and naive.... any kind of shit could happen, its too easy for one person to do something that turns the other off completely when you dont know eachother, then where are you left off (probably making a post like this.. no offence intended to you... i'm venting a little bit btw because i've been dealing with a lot of stalkers lately, and can't figure out hth ppl are still like this)