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my_scatterheart · 04-15-2009, 01:53 PM

Sometimes you have to hurt people's feelings. That's not to say that what you did was the best course of action, but it definitely sounds like (despite the way it went down) a moderately positive step for you. Forgive yourself. Gotta do what's best for you, and being guilted into tolerating her isn't good for you.

edit: don't email her a second time. Only email her if she emails you back, and even then... apologize for your lack of tact that night but say in the nicest possible way that it stands. Don't get reeled back into dealings with her, it makes things worse in the end, especially for her.

04-15-2009, 01:53 PM	#10 (permalink)
my_scatterheart Today, I am alive. Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 4,060 Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 2,712 Times in 1,579 Posts	Sometimes you have to hurt people's feelings. That's not to say that what you did was the best course of action, but it definitely sounds like (despite the way it went down) a moderately positive step for you. Forgive yourself. Gotta do what's best for you, and being guilted into tolerating her isn't good for you. edit: don't email her a second time. Only email her if she emails you back, and even then... apologize for your lack of tact that night but say in the nicest possible way that it stands. Don't get reeled back into dealings with her, it makes things worse in the end, especially for her. __________________ Be mindful even if your mind is full. -J. De La Vega Last edited by my_scatterheart; 04-15-2009 at 01:55 PM.