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toast, sir, don't hold anything back on my account. The male perspective is the male perspective is the male perspective.
It's not like I don't see some truth in it.
To say "get it out of your head that she is the only girl available" is completely on point. To say get it out of your head that "she is somehow unique or special." Is pretty bullshit, and I think you know that.
People that come at me in that manner can be picked out of a crowd easily. It's not hard to distinguish someone who is interested in me as a person [which WOW...includes a vag] and someone who is still under the impression that women are just meat to spin around your dick. Most of the time it's not offensive as much as it is plain fucking annoying. To tell him to subscribe to theories that turn him into the latter will be detrimental to him down the line.
You will say that these practices have gotten you laid time and again, that they are fruitful to you. To you I say, congrats on whatever works with your life. But not many can roll with that. The average man who plays that hand will be shot down by anyone worth any effort.
Also, I think it's kind of shitty to tell some kid who's into this girl he knows that she isn't anything special. Sure, he probably wont marry the girl. But that makes her not special? That makes her not worth the respect of courting? Give me a break. You sir, are special, are you not? You sir, have something to offer that the average clown does not, amirite? Give strangers the respect you demand of others. Otherwise you're just a jerkoff.
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