Welcome, Jimmy. I can relate totally. I stopped from 1995-2007. After some health trouble (IBD) my wife got okay with it after 8 years with no sign of it in our home (My comments about when I'm an old widower I can get stoned wore on her). The changes that occurred while I was gone were big. If you don't have a vaporizer you should get one--it is better, tastier, healthier and I think it pays for itself by requiring less greenery.
I live in NC but am from Hyde Park (about 45 minutes from Woodstock). I was only up there once but it was cool. There was a blank-headed hippie I met that had supposedly had his memory erased by the CIA with LSD and a cool looking club called the Lake. I bought a Bowie import and went home--nice atmosphere though.
My only real conflict has to do with honesty and parenting as well. Let me know if you come up with any good insights. Have a nice day