Canuck Wisdom

Soooo, something interesting happened today. There is this waitress that works at a bar I go to, and long story short I have sort of idealized her in my mind to the point where I get nervous around her, even though I dont really know her at all.

For some reason today, while at work, I have no idea why, I cant remember the thoughts that led up to this, I thought, man, if she worked here I could get to know her comfortably instead of trying to talk to her while drunk at this bar.

Not sure why this thought occurred to me, seemed like a random thing, whatever, thinking about sexy girls etc. And then after work I am sitting at the bar having a drink and she walks in to drop off a resume! Not only was I blown away by the fact that this actually happened the same day I sort of fantasized about it, but of course I also froze up and got kinda embarrassed because I have sort of put her on a pedestal without even knowing her, likely ruining my chances of comfortably talking to her.

I have had a few other occurances of this in my life, where I am having what at the time seems to be a normal thought (i.e. I couldnt put the prediction to use to prep for the future) but turns out to be a massive coincidence with what is really about to happen. Anybody else get this? Almost like prophecy, but without the knowledge that its a prophecy.

And also, any tips on how to un-idealize someone in my mind lol?

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