This was off the top of my head so don't expect a miracle from it. But the message is pretty much this,
if your parents didn't have love for you, how did you eat?
if the president doesn't love his nation, how will the outcome be?
if your friends have no love for you, what do they want from you?
edit -
Turmaline it sounds like your husband has some sexual tendancies. It doesn't imply that he doesn't love you, it could but it doesn't necessarily mean that. He's probably just desensitized, but how on earth could I know that. The match stick may burn away, but the great thing about it is, you can always strike up another match and have it again(not find another guy but find more things about each other). If I had never seen it I wouldn't believe it. But I feel for you
