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Life is rough growing up. Lemme give it a guesss, she'sss 17?
Well if you could get away with it try and write a letter through your friend or to her window/mail-box. Let her know how you feel, but don't be like "Yo I heard you wanna die, don't do it dude". Just try something along the lines of "Hey I know you prolly wanna rip this up but please read it. I know things have gotten sour between us but I still care about you. I know your going through some rough times but I'd like to be there for you.", etc etc. Make your intentions clear but don't be to pushy. Most depressed people I know can't instantly transition into the "I want" or "I need" help phase.
Now if you have serious evidence she is suicidal and you want her to stick around, than I'd suggest reaching out to professional help. Yahooka can't save this girls life, and there's a big chance you and your friend wont be able to either. Being suicidal feels incurable no matter how much love or great things are around. It's like a rain cloud permanetly in front of the eye of the mind.
But someone suggesting they might want to die or something isn't probable reason to put your friend through that kind of action. usually when you tell a help-line someone is suicidal it isn't a day in day out kind of experience for the person involved. Trust me.
I really feel for you, and this girl and the whole group. I hope all the best comes all your ways. Just remember what I said though. Get ahold of her as best you can, if you can't and it get's serious seek help.
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