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Shit's basically been said. And been there done that.
Dad shouldn't have opened the mail. Let dude cool off then rationally explain to him that it's not the proper thing to do and that you have other plans for the majority of your money, that you'll be happy to kick him a few bucks and do your share of shit around the house that needs to be done but that you've got your future to take care of. If he can't understand that and you put it to him rationally then that's pretty fucked.
Definitely don't move out on such a tight budget, especially with the way shit is going. I've come ridiculously close to doing that a few times now and despite still being at home and shit not being as wonderful as I'd like I'd rather put up with the semi-occasional problem than be more or less miserable most of the time on my own. I'd be able to make it through, but not making ends meet or having a terrible time doing so isn't equal to having to put up with your parents trying to be parents.
Ride shit out and discuss it rationally when cooler heads prevail.
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and why can't that always be
tossing aside from your birches crown
just enough dark to see
how you're the light over me
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