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Old 08-26-2009, 08:19 AM   #12 (permalink)
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My recommendations would be that

a) be straight up. You are not interested in him that way so just flat out tell him. Let him know u had fun with him once but you're not interested in doing that anymore and to please stop making advances as it makes you uncomfortable and you'd like to still be friends with him. He should appreciate the honesty, but don't drag this confrontation out or make him feel bad.

b)Stop fucking people you are not interested in. Take some time to get to know a person first. Realize that these situation arise because you couldn't keep your legs closed and now you are paying for it. I know i've gone through many similar situations before i learned the lesson. You should really try to be more discriminate in choosing a mate then this. Take some knowledge from the situation instead of just doing the damage control. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. And being drunk is NOT an excuse.

Good luck.
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