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Originally Posted by CowMan
Stop fucking people you are not interested in. Take some time to get to know a person first. Realize that these situation arise because you couldn't keep your legs closed and now you are paying for it. I know i've gone through many similar situations before i learned the lesson. You should really try to be more discriminate in choosing a mate then this. Take some knowledge from the situation instead of just doing the damage control. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. And being drunk is NOT an excuse.
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I did take time to get to know him, I believe he was selective about what information he decided to make available about himself before anything sexual happened. Being discriminate wasn't an issue until his true colors began to show. Besides, it's one thing to have sexual contact with someone whose character turns out to be questionable and another to try and make a relationship out of it.
Being drunk is
certainly an excuse, even though I do take responsibility regardless.
Sure I got myself drunk, but booze alters judgment, memory, awareness and rationale in a way that few other substances will. This taking place certainly inspired me to re-evaluate my use of alcohol a while ago--I have not been intoxicated in over two months.