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Originally Posted by osirus2020
So basically you fucked him and now he's just being a clingy SOB? It doesn't sound like an unrealistic scenario.
Do you still want to be friends with this dude? You haven't told us about the qualities you like in him and there are clearly a lot of things that you don't like about him. This gives me the idea you're just having trouble getting a guy you don't like.
It's not too late to terminate a relationship altogether like this because it's a relationship you chose to be in as apposed to a relationship you're obligated to be in (like family). It also sounds like you haven't known him for too long.
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I've known him 5 months, so not especially long. I hooked up with him after 2 months of knowing him. I will base whether it's a good idea to even be friends from his response to me declining the benefits.
He's a nice guy with a good heart, very loyal and supportive to friends--just a bit dense with irritating qualities. These qualities eventually made themselves obvious and sometimes problematic.
All of our friends have attributes that are negative and positive, which may make you want to spend less or more time around them.