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still SARS, you should of known better. Obviously this whole scenario of him beating up his car over a girl was common knowledge among people before you bumped uglies. As was the fact that he's mooching off his folks. And if it wasn't told to you, a little background searching on the guys you're going to bone or even going to associate with wouldn't go astray.
Sure being drunk can alter judgment, but obviously something attracted you to him in the first place. You put yourself in the position to be drunk with him in a spot that you could fuck. Using 'oh i was drunk' excuses is total bullshit when you're still making obvious, sober choices that lead to said incident.
You should just face up to being responsible for putting yourself in this situation that you're in now and learn from your mistakes. Sure cutting back on booze can't hurt and I'm glad you've taken at least that lesson from this experience but there's clearly more you can learn here.
It was your mistake after all and now you've got yourself stressed out and will probably put this apparently sensitive, nice guy under emotional strain as well. A little discretion in choosing your environment and who you decide to surround yourself with could go a long way in making your life easier and more enjoyable.
I'm really not trying to be an asshole here, I'm simply speaking from experience. Making clear intelligent choices in who you associate with, drink with and ultimately fuck with will make your life better.
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