Let me hit the other side....
Whatever goes into her body goes into their body, if she just wants to get high, then I don't think she has thought it through.
I want to make it clear, I been a smoker for 30 years and my wife for 25, I have 2 sons so this is experience talking.
My wife smoked occasionally during her first and second trimesters with my youngest son because that was the only medicine that allowed her to keep food, even water down, prescription meds did nothing or made her worse.
Theres alot of things that are 'Okay' to do while you're pregnant, but you're not giving the little ones any kind of choice in the matter, just something to think about.
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