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Originally Posted by Bad dog
sorry to hear your troubles, man.
do you think it would have been better if you'd done it earlier?
just asking cuz my boats rocking too much and I can't decide whether to jump ship or wait for it to crash on the rocks.
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I have no idea, man. I couldn't see this happening until it did, and then it was pretty much done. We're trying counselling, but it doesn't seem to be getting anywhere. I feel like all she wants is to prove to the counsellor that I'm the bad guy, not to actually resolve anything. Maybe that's a sign, I don't know. You could try counselling, and if she doesn't seem to want it for anything more than having another person on her side, maybe that says something about her, and the marriage.
I don't know your woman, so I really can't say. It seems like it should be obvious what they want, and if it can work, but love is earthworm blind, even when it's full of anger.
The Rev