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Originally Posted by awwsuga23
told him a little while ago. 1st he was yelling "are you fucking kidding me" alot and saying when i walk out the door im dead to him. then he said i cant leave cuz he will physically not let me walk out the door cuz he will beat the shit out of me. I told him that even if i walk out the door with a black eye and bloody nose im still leaving. I proceeded to go to my room to pack my shit. he then calls me out of my room to ask me what to do with a ticket to a cruise the family is supposed to go on (including me) in February. i asked him if he could just cancel my ticket and he sad he cant. so then i asked him if he wanted me to pay him back for the ticket and he said no that he wants me to just come not for him but for my little sisters who are going to be devastated that i am leaving. so i guess all in all i went a little better than i expected. i hope he will eventually get over not wanting me in his life cuz i do want him in mine
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wow your father is a dramatic guy.
he must really care for you if leaving upsets him so much.
dont get angry back at him just keep your cool and be respectful about it and he will calm down. it is pretty unfair to drop the bomb on him and then leave so soon, you should have at least mentioned it months before hand so that he knows what to expect and you are leaving in a respectful way and maybe he wouldnt be so shocked and upset
edit: ah ok after reading da thread a bit i see that it worked itself out, very good.