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**SageTree** · 10-01-2009, 04:05 PM

This is probably good, unless they reinstate it as a therapy drug with a licensed mediator, like it was back in the 80's. I think it could have profoundly good results in that case.

Most of my Dad's anger was because I stumped him in arguements, and I'm not just being cocksure here. He would just start to sputter and ah. yh. i. a. gt.... I would tell him he was only pissed because I offended his ego...that is pretty much when he would come after me and start on me..... But I was bigger at the time, and I had alot of vengence to release, for when I was younger and to little or young to know I could fight back and what laws were.

After our family's divorce I think he became really frightened me and my sister wouldn't talk to him again and for about 2-3 years I only got a call from and called once a year, so two times we'd speak, and it was brief. Then one day I decided to forgive him and ask for it in return. He was game. However I don't think that fear has ever left him and for that I feel bad. He really doesn't even talk about it when I try to prompt convo, which could alleviate that fear.

So for those two opposing reasons, I wish we could do it together in a counseling setting so his angry former ego and his hurt scared fearful one would be quelled long enough for us to embrace each other and really meld together again like when I was really young.

I miss my Dad. He just turned 50 this year. And I wish I could break through that wall he hides behind so that he could feel the warm of my heart and tears.

Why are father son relationships so often complicated. His Dad and his was as well. So it's possible he just doesn't know how ....

10-01-2009, 04:05 PM	#24 (permalink)
SageTree ~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~ Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In Love Posts: 22,607 Blog Entries: 26 Thanks: 11,482 Thanked 5,706 Times in 4,022 Posts	This is probably good, unless they reinstate it as a therapy drug with a licensed mediator, like it was back in the 80's. I think it could have profoundly good results in that case. Most of my Dad's anger was because I stumped him in arguements, and I'm not just being cocksure here. He would just start to sputter and ah. yh. i. a. gt.... I would tell him he was only pissed because I offended his ego...that is pretty much when he would come after me and start on me..... But I was bigger at the time, and I had alot of vengence to release, for when I was younger and to little or young to know I could fight back and what laws were. After our family's divorce I think he became really frightened me and my sister wouldn't talk to him again and for about 2-3 years I only got a call from and called once a year, so two times we'd speak, and it was brief. Then one day I decided to forgive him and ask for it in return. He was game. However I don't think that fear has ever left him and for that I feel bad. He really doesn't even talk about it when I try to prompt convo, which could alleviate that fear. So for those two opposing reasons, I wish we could do it together in a counseling setting so his angry former ego and his hurt scared fearful one would be quelled long enough for us to embrace each other and really meld together again like when I was really young. I miss my Dad. He just turned 50 this year. And I wish I could break through that wall he hides behind so that he could feel the warm of my heart and tears. Why are father son relationships so often complicated. His Dad and his was as well. So it's possible he just doesn't know how .... __________________ YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance. "We're not here to judge what's good from bad, But to do the things that are right." Last edited by SageTree; 10-01-2009 at 05:25 PM.