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Originally Posted by AlteredStateGrl
You know why he's acting the way he is. He's mad at the world. Maybe right now all he needs is someone to say "look man, i know you're pissed off at the world right now, and that really fuckin' sucks, but do you really need to be taking it out on me and others? i don't want to fight you, maybe we can just squash all this drama..."
I really don't see that you need to fight him...sounds like he's just looking to take his aggressions and issues out on everyone around him. Show him he doesn't have to be pissed off at the world to validate whatever is bothering him right now. If he doesn't listen to your attempt to talk to him, I'd just ignore it all. He's 19, you've known him since he was a baby, and it would cause major drama between his mom and stepdad and you. I'm sure it would just eventually blow over, especially if you just sit and talk to him real quick. He may not be all "acting normal" again, but it'll at least give him a clearer picture...you don't really want drama with him when he's throwing a tantrum.
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thank you..great advice.
when i went down there my intentions were to talk to him, i tried but i admit i was mad and after watching his snide remarks thats when i called him names to see what he'd do which i regret cuz i'm the older one and should have been more mature about it.
im 33 scatt, and his dad does know about it, he was upset with me calling him a bitch but he said after he thought about he said he [the boy] can be hard headed and dads not mad now...lol.
this whole ordeal is fucked cuz i never said a damn thing about him...i think he just made this shit up. im just trying to mind my own business and i get caught up. wtf..lol.