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Porcelain · 10-05-2009, 09:15 PM

Well, my dad and I have been renting an apartment together for the past year since I split up with my ex. He kind of brought up this living arrangement cuz he told me all kinds of tall tales about how he wants to help me get my life back on track. He said he was going to pay for all the bills and I'd have time to go back to school. He was planning on bringing my 10 year old brother back from Russia (the kid was there for over a year) and, in return, he'd want me to help take care of him and his newly developed diabetes. What pisses me off is that I'm holding up my end of the deal (and more) but he's not. I pay for the cable, internet, both of our phones (which run +$200 sometimes cuz he likes to call his chick long distance when he's on his trucker runs), laundry, I stock the fridge and I pay for so many other small things throughout the month. He hasn't paid rent for September yet, the only time he buys food is before the weekend so his chick has something to eat when she's here and he always walks around making excuses for why he doesn't have money. I had to buy my brother all of his back-to-school clothes. I watched that kid non-stop all summer and everyday after school. Frankly, my dad's getting on my nerves all together, I just don't know how to tell him. He doesn't seem to have any kind of respect for me or any ways in which I've been helping. I guess I'm just boiling over cuz I feel like the whole world is taking advantage of me. My ex is 3 months late on child support...and at a very convenient time too. My daughter needed some dental surgery recently, $800 of which is not covered by my insurence. I'm just freaking out cuz I have all of this debt overwhelming me and all I wanna do is come home to a fucking peaceful house without some brat touching my shit. The thing is, if I wasn't a parent, I might have let it slide that a kid of 7 years old could be stupid enough to go in my room after I told her not to a few times. But I am a parent. I tell my 4 year old not to go somewhere or do something and she listens. Why can't a 7 year old? It IS the parents fault. Fuck it I guess I'll have to put locks on my doors...I just didn't think it needed to come to that. I honestly expected more from my dad.

10-05-2009, 09:15 PM	#6 (permalink)
Porcelain Oatmeal Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Joe's apartment Posts: 376 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 27 Thanked 31 Times in 27 Posts	Well, my dad and I have been renting an apartment together for the past year since I split up with my ex. He kind of brought up this living arrangement cuz he told me all kinds of tall tales about how he wants to help me get my life back on track. He said he was going to pay for all the bills and I'd have time to go back to school. He was planning on bringing my 10 year old brother back from Russia (the kid was there for over a year) and, in return, he'd want me to help take care of him and his newly developed diabetes. What pisses me off is that I'm holding up my end of the deal (and more) but he's not. I pay for the cable, internet, both of our phones (which run +$200 sometimes cuz he likes to call his chick long distance when he's on his trucker runs), laundry, I stock the fridge and I pay for so many other small things throughout the month. He hasn't paid rent for September yet, the only time he buys food is before the weekend so his chick has something to eat when she's here and he always walks around making excuses for why he doesn't have money. I had to buy my brother all of his back-to-school clothes. I watched that kid non-stop all summer and everyday after school. Frankly, my dad's getting on my nerves all together, I just don't know how to tell him. He doesn't seem to have any kind of respect for me or any ways in which I've been helping. I guess I'm just boiling over cuz I feel like the whole world is taking advantage of me. My ex is 3 months late on child support...and at a very convenient time too. My daughter needed some dental surgery recently, $800 of which is not covered by my insurence. I'm just freaking out cuz I have all of this debt overwhelming me and all I wanna do is come home to a fucking peaceful house without some brat touching my shit. The thing is, if I wasn't a parent, I might have let it slide that a kid of 7 years old could be stupid enough to go in my room after I told her not to a few times. But I am a parent. I tell my 4 year old not to go somewhere or do something and she listens. Why can't a 7 year old? It IS the parents fault. Fuck it I guess I'll have to put locks on my doors...I just didn't think it needed to come to that. I honestly expected more from my dad. __________________ I'm so good at masturbation, I don't even need sex anymore - The Rev The world will look up and shout "SAVE US!" and I'll look down and whisper, "No..."