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Depends what you think being nice vs being cocky and funny means. If you mean being 'nice' as being a pushover with no backbone who doesn't lead but follows, then I think you won't be getting much play. If you are 'nice by being respectful of your chick as another person not just your pussy for the night but because you know shes a person you DON'T become a pushover or whatever in the process then your golden.
The whole cocky and funny thing is an end not a means. It's the result of a guy who's confident around women not the other way. Guys who don't understand that misuse it and look like complete douche bags.
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