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**SageTree** · 11-05-2009, 10:46 AM

Yea what doesn't she want you to convert to? And does it totally defy your beliefs?

But my true thoughts are:

WHY? Why or what does she want from you doing this?

If you know it'd be half hearted then you should say that to her, why she'd want a half hearted commitment to religion, because that half hearted religious 'journey', might ultimately lead to a half hearted feeling about the whole relationship rather than just respecting your opinions on the matter. Which may be somewhere in the middle of yes and no.

A lot of people sit through church each week, and go about their lives otherwise.

On the other hand if she is really that great, maybe you'd enjoy seeing a part of her life that is important to you.

If she wants you to convert for her parents sake, or to make things easier. I don't know man. Once the ball is rolling on a story, you have to keep it going, and that is tough.

Good luck man, maybe just have fun while you can and it wasn't the right time.

Much love,
Sage

11-05-2009, 10:46 AM	#17 (permalink)
SageTree ~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~ Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In Love Posts: 23,414 Blog Entries: 26 Thanks: 13,070 Thanked 6,767 Times in 4,664 Posts	Yea what doesn't she want you to convert to? And does it totally defy your beliefs? But my true thoughts are: WHY? Why or what does she want from you doing this? If you know it'd be half hearted then you should say that to her, why she'd want a half hearted commitment to religion, because that half hearted religious 'journey', might ultimately lead to a half hearted feeling about the whole relationship rather than just respecting your opinions on the matter. Which may be somewhere in the middle of yes and no. A lot of people sit through church each week, and go about their lives otherwise. On the other hand if she is really that great, maybe you'd enjoy seeing a part of her life that is important to you. If she wants you to convert for her parents sake, or to make things easier. I don't know man. Once the ball is rolling on a story, you have to keep it going, and that is tough. Good luck man, maybe just have fun while you can and it wasn't the right time. Much love, Sage __________________ "What's oppressive is letting your life be confined by old definitions of what everything is." -Zen Meister my_scatterheart YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance.