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**SageTree** · 11-06-2009, 11:28 AM

Good luck vanilla. Thanks for sharing some details. I think you'll work it out, find a balance or not.

I think it's okay to experiment and let someone you care about introduce things to you, for relationships, to me, seem to be about balancing who you are with the expectations, of the other one, just as that person has that choice as well.

I believe a good relationship validates your existence of the 'good' and 'bad' things in your life. For instance for me I feel I found a mate that has let who I was blossom, while also, giving me a person to care about enough to learn how to not act through anger at all times, and provided a safe environment for me to explore where that emotion comes from.

This all said....you've been together for 5 weeks. Balance in correct proportion for you. Because ultimately you are the person who has to live with you, the most. Set boundaries for compromise...these little give and takes, prove to be telling of larger ones.

So take it slow and take it easy brother.

11-06-2009, 11:28 AM	#29 (permalink)
SageTree ~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~ Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In Love Posts: 22,608 Blog Entries: 26 Thanks: 11,482 Thanked 5,708 Times in 4,023 Posts	Good luck vanilla. Thanks for sharing some details. I think you'll work it out, find a balance or not. I think it's okay to experiment and let someone you care about introduce things to you, for relationships, to me, seem to be about balancing who you are with the expectations, of the other one, just as that person has that choice as well. I believe a good relationship validates your existence of the 'good' and 'bad' things in your life. For instance for me I feel I found a mate that has let who I was blossom, while also, giving me a person to care about enough to learn how to not act through anger at all times, and provided a safe environment for me to explore where that emotion comes from. This all said....you've been together for 5 weeks. Balance in correct proportion for you. Because ultimately you are the person who has to live with you, the most. Set boundaries for compromise...these little give and takes, prove to be telling of larger ones. So take it slow and take it easy brother. __________________ YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance. "We're not here to judge what's good from bad, But to do the things that are right."