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Old 11-07-2009, 11:42 AM   #2 (permalink)
Cerpin Taxt
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Mirroring is people's unconscious way of showing that they vibe with the person they are interacting with. When you're talking with a girl/guy you like, take note of whether their body language is matching yours. A touch of the face, a particular lean, an arm/leg configuration.. you may even notice that you are matching them without knowing it (because you like them!).

Mirroring strengthens social connections too, so if you can do it SUBTLY -- that is, not blatantly trying to match the way they are presenting themselves -- with an air of ease and relaxation it will help you a lot! Or at least a bit
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