4 or 5 years up is absolutely nothing unreasonable or scandalous( unless = <18 ) regardless that the woman is the older party instead of the dude.
i can't see myself wanting to date/fuck/be involved with anybody significantly closer to my parents' age than they are to mine.
first off...i doubt i would be able to relate to someone who is decades my senior. secondly, my friends and theirs would never mesh. thirdly--maybe you have a son my age?
give me his digits, pops