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Originally Posted by Dezzy
Soon as i read your thread Sars it instantly reminded me of my current "relationship". I love it but i hate it 4 multiple reasons we are BestFriends i love it cuz were open but i also hate it because everytime im with a girl she is what i think about and shes said the 1 dude she was with all she could think about was me. Thats the extents we goto talking about other partners if it was more we would both get jealous.
We had a nice talk tonite though about how if we dont find anybody that makes us feel the way we do by the time were 28(4yrs) that we are gonna become a couple. It sounds stupid but i can very easily see this happening. The reason we arent a couple is because we were both in previous long term relationships and were so young that we didnt find it fair that we couldnt go out and see what it out there. Weve been doing this 4 about a 18months now and it seems like the 28y/o thing is gonna happen sooner.
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If I could give you any advice...please do not risk waiting on it for much longer. I can attest, this ordeal is fucked, especially when you know you could have done differently to change circumstances. Of course, I can only speak for myself but it's all relative.
We had been friends for a year, w/inclusion of having sex for 8 months or so. Here I am, shortly thereafter, facing the possibility of a total loss. The worst part is, all of this was entirely under my control and (ironically) I ended up fucking
myself. You never know how soon or when it's going to be jeopardized.
Don't subject yourself to the turmoil I am experiencing right now--it is perhaps one of the worst regrets--and I have had a lot. Jump on it for real this time, and it sounds as if she will be all yours.