Originally Posted by The SARS Volta

Oh, of course. There are notorious chronic moochers around everywhere. Nobody likes them, naturally. The solutions are either don't invite them or don't let them in if they show. That's the beauty of the phrase "our/my place". You have that kind of power in this situation.

Originally Posted by Mercury

Every gay man I've ever known would love nothing more than to get butt raped without warning.
Seriously, if I wanted to I could just throw the next gay guy I come across right up against a wall and give him an anal assault and he wouldn't complain one bit.