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getting dome isn't rare at all. it's 2010--cultural background/gender are crap excuses to fall short. in fact i'd suggest underlying dysfunction behind adamant refusal toward the act is present.

not to dig too deep--but if a key motive behind oral is to gain unrelated needs from the receiver, it's likely you got yourself an opportunistic deadlay.
going so far as sex in the first place leaves nothing sacred let alone blowjobs. however it's a comparatively slight effort that makes for vast improvement.

personally, i haven't been in physical contact with a single guy being totally against it--since i'm not greedy myself, i figure. there were instances which i gave > than i got but this wasn't a real problem for me.

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crookedhatinator45

i think you need to re-read my post sars..

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i'm assuming by 'in your experience' you mean more than 2 people were pr00d to the point of totally holding off

(the reading comprehension skills are up on par.)

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crookedhatinator45

actually, i meant that out of the 7 chocolatey girls i've been with in the past 3 years, only two of them have sucked me off. and the 5 that didn't were not prudes in the least.. total freaks who did just about everything else i could ask for.

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...seven can't be a lucky number all the time i suppose

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crookedhatinator45

ioooooo

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Originally Posted by Sk3tchyD4ZO no doubt. the first place i had these was at Space Camp.

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Canuck Wisdom

Head seems like a pretty big thing to be left out by 'total freaks'. I don't get it; why people would have a problem with going down.


I did however, without even really thinking about it, never really go down on this one girl I was just fuck-buddies with. She's the only girl I've been with like that (not had more feelings for) and I just didn't even think about it. I think this bothered her, but thats okay.

She would also tell me to cum in her mouth and then move away as if in disgust when I started to. Somewhat unfulfilling, but funny,

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for real; they're going to let you stick it to the ass and welcome other unconventional acts...in which case refusing compliance with head is ridic

if she never said anything about it or cut off the sex, a lack of oral may not have been a huge deal in her mind. generally speaking, it's important to get on the job.

conversely, you typically keep sex confined to people you have greater attachments to, so i see why you'd not be as concerned (although personally i feel if the guy's worth putting out for i'm also complying w/head).

and wow--i find it inconceivable she'd specifically request skeet in the mouth and react like it's repulsive to her.

suppose some dude asks that i sit on his face and then start to back away? i may not be as inclined to do my part either.

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bongobongo

all i know is when im IN a RELATIONSHIP ill go down all night and i love the taste and i want her to either get off or im gonna get her off with my mouth or dick


but say if i hit up this tramp at a party and shes just giving me the fuck me look, ill bang her with a condom on and NOT go down on her... and in those situations it seems ive 90% of the time gotten head before starting fucking.

it seems ladies get into the whole thing a lot faster, like oh man im gonna get this guys baby batter no matter what.. but as a guy i just think "oh sweet gonna get my rocks off!".


my skills are probably pretty rusty too, i havent gotten laid in a MINUTE, it feels like if i started to make out i would have to learn how to ride the bike real quick. being 22 living by myself and not having the best girl social life kind of does that to people...

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parties are rather spontaneous & unplanned situational hookups, if w/ anonymous persons of questionable morale.
considering both of you are likely to be wasted & it probably won't happen a second time the same rules may not apply--i'm willing to bet at least half the time you won't remember their names--as opposed to hitting it on the reg (gf or not) you might do differently

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bongobongo

ya, i suppose knowing the difference between the two is the biggest jive.

hah, which shouldnt be hard i would hope.

Canuck Wisdom

I didnt mention she was a virgin at the time and was probably curious cause she had read about it or something (she told me she had read a lot about sex?? as opposed to watching porn?) but didnt enjoy the spurting feeling.

Ever since I stopped hooking up with her, (I guess she cut me off, but its probably a good thing) I have been thinking, I should have tried to get her in the face if she pulled away. Something about facials are so hot. It would have been kinda rude maybe, if she wasnt expecting, but meh...

Also, if your curious, I feel like she may have cut me off because a) she wanted a real boyfriend maybe? not sure, and b) I never really got her off. We slept together maybe 10-20 times and she orgasmed once or twice.
I think that this is a result of two things; One, I think it takes some experience for women to get in touch with their orgasms (interested in thoughts on this) and two, her vagina was incredibly tight and as much as its not the best thing to admit, I just found it so pleasurable I could not last very long with her. I'd even get myself off earlier in the day before she came over and I would still not last very long with her.

Fortunately its not the same since, so I am convinced it was something about how tight her vageen was, or it seemed extra naughty to me because we didn't know each other very well besides sex, or cause she was columbian and younger (and I'm usually attracted more to older).

Also, may as well, while I am going on about my sex life w/ this girl... After not seeing her for a while, maybe 1-2 months later, we met at the bar, walked part way home together, and she tells me she misses my penis, so I'm like, okay come back to my place, she says she can't..? and we end up on the trail behind some houses where she gives me a blowjob. again, moving out of the way for the ejaculation. That was more mentally hot/naughty than physically (had been drinking).

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Cerebro

trail bj, props

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Growing accustomed to sex and attuned to one's own style is gradual & not always guaranteed to happen in the first place. Many harbor dysfunctional, repressive notions of sex remaining unresolved or perhaps struggle with confidence. All factors can hinder the progression of one's sexual identity and skill level (not assuming girl in your story had these problems)...generall y speaking.

In my experience, it took a long while to have an intense, noticeable and definite orgasms--let alone achieving it multiple times upon virtually all sexual encounters, which is now the case.
For instance I lost my v-card at 17. At the time, I enjoyed sex but sensed it was somehow lacking and on the bright side, getting better and more fulfilling in passing time. Age 20, issue was solved when I discovered a previously dormant ability to squirt. Initially I considered it extreme/bizarre in nature despite that it felt amazing. I only received enthusiastic positive responses.
This holdup wasn't resulting from guys failing in efforts to get me off beforehand—rather it was my inexperience & lack of self-knowledge. Takes time to get that shit sorted out.
Another note, CW… I can’t in good conscience endorse dropping loads on her mug without warning, especially given she isn’t fond of The White Swallow. Any possibility of cum-in-eye is terrifying & one can’t always control where it all lands. I have no firsthand experience w/ this: (1) I’d pass on bukkake (2) no one I was with made a specific request.

(You can't justify surprise facials any better than she would defend biting down hard on it as payback)

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edit: actually i accidentally came on a few faces. they either didn't listen or failed to move out the way with the quickness

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crookedhatinator45

the ladies hate it when you get it in their hair.

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crookedhatinator45

maybe i'm just a freak, but i kind of dig getting facials from chicks.. i think a lot of it has to do with knowing you've pleasured them that much that they just quake and ooze, or squirt if they have the ability.

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Originally Posted by Sk3tchyD4ZO no doubt. the first place i had these was at Space Camp.

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Originally Posted by Former President Hayes stfu with this pretend bullshit cutesy "lol @ bears" you don't know what its like to like in CONSTANT threat of bear attack.you don't even FUCKING KNOW.

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None of them really minded when I did so, although I apologized 'cause I never meant to.

Also when it comes to skeet men & women don't share similar products.
If a girl is able to squirt, the result is akin to water (clear/won't leave stain; doesn't have a scent) yet there are vast quantities of this fluid & it usually gets released multiple times.

Conversely, w/ guys it's thick substantial matter and much less cum is unleashed upon orgasm than recurring tidal waves from squirters.

On the basis of consistency difference it's likely a bitch getting the latter near/in eyes or out of hair. Looks to have potential to solidify, which could be a nightmare

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Captain Cannabis

nigga went to bodily fluids college

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shit, i graduated with a Ph.D at the top of my class!

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