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Old 05-12-2009, 01:56 PM   #21 (permalink)
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if she's 17 and he's 19 then isn't he kind of a teenage prospect himself?

none of you girls were with a 19 year old guy when you were 17? ... i would be very surprised.
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Old 05-12-2009, 02:04 PM   #22 (permalink)
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if she's 17 and he's 19 then isn't he kind of a teenage prospect himself?

none of you girls were with a 19 year old guy when you were 17? ... i would be very surprised.
I told him to go for it in my first post, I was just being silly in the one above. I would just want him to be SURE that she's 16. Teenage girls are notorious for lying about their ages.

And to answer your question, I was with an older guy when I was 16. And he was a TOTAL fucking creep.
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Old 05-12-2009, 02:22 PM   #23 (permalink)
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If it makes you happy and both partners are into it then why should it matter?
Right. Shit can still hit the fan though until they are of legal age...
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Old 05-12-2009, 02:36 PM   #24 (permalink)
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Everyone is going to discourage it but chances are 99% if faced with the same situation would go for it provided the chick/dude was chill...Older partners aren't always "creepers" they may just not have the psychical assets to net one of their peers, or in the small town situation saturation with peers could have been reached and the only options are looking outside of the normal 2-3 window...

But 16 isn't that innocent of an age anymore, and 19-16 isn't a huge gap at all...
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Old 05-12-2009, 02:41 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I think it depends a lot on the individuals, sometimes a big age difference means nothing, often it`s not the healthiest thing.

I wouldn`t worry about the moral aspects too much, a 16-19 age difference is nothing really. More the legal aspects.
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Everyone is going to discourage it but chances are 99% if faced with the same situation would go for it provided the chick/dude was chill...Older partners aren't always "creepers" they may just not have the psychical assets to net one of their peers, or in the small town situation saturation with peers could have been reached and the only options are looking outside of the normal 2-3 window...

But 16 isn't that innocent of an age anymore, and 19-16 isn't a huge gap at all...
werd. alot of 16 yo's are 16 going on 30. but bearsy is still at that "right" age to be doin that. im 31. not so much the "right" age, more along the lines of "stat. rape" age. but srsly, just tread lightly bears. dont just go for the gusto and have the 'rents pissed at you. until she's 18, they can actually press charges without permission or acknowledment of the wee lass.
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Old 05-12-2009, 03:20 PM   #27 (permalink)
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yeah but I'm pretty sure the law in most states is that you have to be within 3 years of one another.
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Old 05-12-2009, 03:50 PM   #28 (permalink)
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legally, you're probably in an ok situation--but as AL said, I would want some proof of age before doing anything. last thing you need is a jailbait stalker.
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Old 05-12-2009, 04:17 PM   #29 (permalink)
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I would be more concerned with the parents.
Be the good dude you are.
Rock the family situation. Let them know you're not a piece of shit, and things will go smoothly.
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Everyone is going to discourage it but chances are 99% if faced with the same situation would go for it provided the chick/dude was chill...Older partners aren't always "creepers" they may just not have the psychical assets to net one of their peers, or in the small town situation saturation with peers could have been reached and the only options are looking outside of the normal 2-3 window...

But 16 isn't that innocent of an age anymore, and 19-16 isn't a huge gap at all...
damn right. I've also hear horror stories from a former co-worker as to why getting with a girl that age doesn't turn out as fairy tale endingness as it did with my two buddies.
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yeah but I'm pretty sure the law in most states is that you have to be within 3 years of one another.
that's among the top 10 list of STUPIDEST FUCKING LAWS EVER.

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Old 05-12-2009, 05:03 PM   #32 (permalink)
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that's among the top 10 list of STUPIDEST FUCKING LAWS EVER.

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how is that stupid? It's for situations exactly like this, when someone is technically still a minor but the age difference isn't so much that it should be considered "illegal". and I have a slight problem with us creating laws to decide when a person is able to make the decision on when they can have sex. I mean shit, I understand that we need to protect young people from adults simply because adults have so much more experience and can persuade them to do things they otherwise wouldn't do. So I do agree with the laws, but I think they've gotten a little out of hand at this point.

Plus, I can name more than 10 more stupid laws than that one.

I'll start with some of my favorite stupid laws just in Texas.

You are not allowed to own any realistic dildos or vibrators.

You are not allowed to own more than 8 dildos and vibrators.

More than 16 women can not live in the same house because it can then be considered a brothel. Sororities are exempt from this law.


And there's so many more... Like in Maryland it's illegal to take a lion to the movie theater.
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Old 05-12-2009, 05:18 PM   #33 (permalink)
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your 20.... nah ur good. steven was 21 when we met. i was barley 17
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my mom did freak the fuck out when she found out how old he was though. even though her boyfriend is 10 years younger than her...i dont get it. parents may be a problem.
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yeah but I'm pretty sure the law in most states is that you have to be within 3 years of one another.
that might be, but im pretty sure that if the parents have a vendetta, they can still push it through regardless. to be safe, do what scatter says. if you really like her, get in good with the parents and show em who you are instead of letting them assume what you are.

and also, i heard that some town in texas has outlawed those tennis-skirt short high-school cheerleading outfits. not sure where i heard that, but i know i did. LOL @ blue book and just plain retarded laws.
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that might be, but im pretty sure that if the parents have a vendetta, they can still push it through regardless.
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none of you girls were with a 19 year old guy when you were 17? ... i would be very surprised.

Most of the girls I knew when we were 17 were screwing the 38 year olds they were babysitting for.

If it feels good, do it.

However...

If you're looking to just get some poon tang, you're looking the wrong way. Go find a nice 40 year old divorced broad who wants nothing more than your dick.
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ditch the 16 year old and find a real 14 year old
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his name?? lol why?
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lol I think it's because it doesn't really fit him... at least that's what I think. But I agree with scatter, it amused me when you said it lol. Although I had never known that was his name til now
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