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Old 05-12-2009, 07:19 PM   #41 (permalink)
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Alot of it depends on your age, and the disposition of the District Attorney in your area. I spoke with a San Diego DA, and their unwritten policy is not to prosecute sex with a minor unless the age difference is more than 5 years, or if the girl's parents really push it. This avoids the 18 year old guy going to prison for boinking his 17-1/2 year old girlfriend scenario. However, if you ARE 22, and she is only 16, it would probably be wise not to push it.



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Old 05-12-2009, 08:31 PM   #42 (permalink)
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And there's so many more... Like in Maryland it's illegal to take a lion to the movie theater.
Sounds like a good law to me, I don't want no lion in my theatre.
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Old 05-12-2009, 08:43 PM   #43 (permalink)
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how is that stupid? It's for situations exactly like this, when someone is technically still a minor but the age difference isn't so much that it should be considered "illegal". and I have a slight problem with us creating laws to decide when a person is able to make the decision on when they can have sex. I mean shit, I understand that we need to protect young people from adults simply because adults have so much more experience and can persuade them to do things they otherwise wouldn't do. So I do agree with the laws, but I think they've gotten a little out of hand at this point.

Plus, I can name more than 10 more stupid laws than that one.

I'll start with some of my favorite stupid laws just in Texas.

You are not allowed to own any realistic dildos or vibrators.

You are not allowed to own more than 8 dildos and vibrators.

More than 16 women can not live in the same house because it can then be considered a brothel. Sororities are exempt from this law.


And there's so many more... Like in Maryland it's illegal to take a lion to the movie theater.
well you only named 4. Of course there are a shit ton of laws that are as outragous. 3 years though?

Look, I have seen both sides of the spectrum, on one extreme it has worked out very well with both the over aged doods and the (former) under aged girls. I've also (haven't seen I guess) heard of how a 21 yr old guy got 'accused' of sexually abusing a minor (16yr old) although he claimed it was consentual. He went to prison for 1 yr i believe?

fuck, basically you either play it 'safe' and play by the rules, or you take your chances. As long as both parties genuinly like eachther, I can honestly see no wrong in that. GL whatever anyone decides to do... society can go fuck themselves. think as if everything is black and white. so sad.
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Old 05-12-2009, 08:51 PM   #44 (permalink)
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go for it homes!
seriously, whens the last time any of you fucked a 16 year old?
don't miss that chance.
They're so ripe and impressionable at that age. so eager!


(they even let you go ass to mouth.)
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Old 05-12-2009, 08:56 PM   #45 (permalink)
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ditch the 16 year old and find a real 14 year old
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Old 05-12-2009, 09:40 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Depending on the age of consent where you live id say go for it
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Old 05-12-2009, 10:40 PM   #47 (permalink)
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well you only named 4. Of course there are a shit ton of laws that are as outragous. 3 years though?

Look, I have seen both sides of the spectrum, on one extreme it has worked out very well with both the over aged doods and the (former) under aged girls. I've also (haven't seen I guess) heard of how a 21 yr old guy got 'accused' of sexually abusing a minor (16yr old) although he claimed it was consentual. He went to prison for 1 yr i believe?

fuck, basically you either play it 'safe' and play by the rules, or you take your chances. As long as both parties genuinly like eachther, I can honestly see no wrong in that. GL whatever anyone decides to do... society can go fuck themselves. think as if everything is black and white. so sad.
lol well I figured you wouldn't want me to actually list 10 laws that are more stupid. And I'm sure you know that I have first hand experience with relationships with older guys that wasn't quite legal. If both parties genuinely like each other then I completely agree with you. The problem is the fact that as an adult your able to manipulate some adolescents, and the laws are just trying to protect them. But I wholeheartedly agree with scatter on this one, you just have to talk to the parents and make sure they're cool with it.
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Old 05-12-2009, 11:40 PM   #48 (permalink)
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For what it's worth I've been laughing about the Steven thing for months now.

Also yeah, way to go is to get in good with the fam. Friend of mine did some shit similar to the bearsy situation, not on some creepy old man shit, parents thought he was a bad dude which wasn't the case and it was a big disgusting debacle. Never charges or anything like that, but it was a big goddamn mess.
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:00 AM   #49 (permalink)
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My daughter spent 2 weeks in jail for dating a guy who said he was 20. He was 16. She was 22. Her charge was interfering with parental control. It is a charge usually reserved for people who kidnap their own kid from their ex-spouse.
The boy kept running away from home. He had her name tattooed on his arm. It was a fucked up mess. The charges were all eventually dropped (lack of evidence), but she still spent 2 weeks locked up, because the parents of the boy couldn't control their kid.

On the other hand....

I work with a guy who said that, when he was 26 and his wife was 13, she walked up to him and said, "I'm gonna marry you someday". He said No Way. She pursued him for 3 years and finally at 16 (and 29), her parents said ok (and so did he). They married at 18 (and 31). They now have 2 sons, ages 10 and 12 and are happy as ever.

So yeah, who can tell.
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:12 AM   #50 (permalink)
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go for it homes!
seriously, whens the last time any of you fucked a 16 year old?
don't miss that chance.
They're so ripe and impressionable at that age. so eager!


(they even let you go ass to mouth.)
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Old 05-13-2009, 10:45 AM   #51 (permalink)
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Old 05-13-2009, 10:59 AM   #52 (permalink)
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Old 05-13-2009, 06:27 PM   #53 (permalink)
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ye sure you wouldnt, anyway take the bait dude its not everyday it gets offered to a guy shaped your size. do it for the team
What does my size have to do with anything? I'm asking about legal ramifications.

I probably get more pussy that you ever will.


Edit: They're gone... only cause I love you scatter
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Old 05-13-2009, 07:03 PM   #54 (permalink)
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wow, really respect the poor girl, aye?
cmon now bearsy
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Old 05-13-2009, 08:50 PM   #55 (permalink)
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hit it, your gulity you have pics you now must do it...
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I'm 19 not 22. There's no way I'd even entertain the idea if I was 22.
hmm this really changes my vote then. if shes 16 almost 17, go for it.

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Old 05-14-2009, 08:44 AM   #57 (permalink)
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OK Guys what about my story .....When I was a 16 year old boy, I was made love to by a woman of 38 and to this day it was the best sex I have ever had. Double standards? She was so fit too. Always puts a smile to my face. Is that ok?
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wow, really respect the poor girl, aye?
cmon now bearsy
damn you and your respect.

i want PIX!
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Old 05-14-2009, 06:27 PM   #60 (permalink)
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I'd ask for proof of her age if I were you. I know it seems like a lamesauce thing to do, but it's probably not a bad idea. I'm pretty sure that saying "I thought she was older than that" doesn't hold up in court. Once you are SURE that she's 16, I think it's safe. You're not even that much older than her, so I don't think you should have any reason to feel like a dirty old man.
I think if you have to ask her for proof of age, you shouldn't be seeing her.
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wake up, call some girl you know, give her the sob story, get some and get fed... it surprisingly works more often than you would think... its the whole motherly instinct thing...
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