Mercury

Okay.. maybe more like an 8.5 on a global scale but still...


what do you do?

The story is I work with this bitch, and I do mean bitch. She is a natural blonde. She is tall. She is thin. Nice butt. Kinda small boobs but they're still there. And I know for damn sure that in high school she was good stock, you know? But now she is 24 years old now (as am i) and she is just working... with me.

It's hard for me to fight her ego given that every other guy who gazes upon her is immediately turned on.

I'm not looking to marry her. I'm not even trying to bang her. I just want to know how I can see her level. Cause I was, am and will always be cool. I just don't know if she knows it. How can I make her recognize?

HOW????

Grieves

best step back before her big native american dealer boyfriend and his brothers tie you up and drag you back to your land behind their horses...

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SageTree

It's really hard to know what have got a person to the point where they are now.

She might be a 'bitch' because she was hurt many times or maybe even seriously abused in some way. I have a hard time thinking that a hard front isn't just a shield for something else.

Maybe she's just tired of every man she works with being a horny dick, god knows that has to get old too.

If you want to befriend this girl, just start with a "good morning, how's it going?" like you'd great your Mom, grama, priest or shoe salesmen. If you are entering in to any relationship with a motive to figure the person out, more than humans try to understand each other, it's probably not going to bode well for either of you.

I don't think you can 'make' her see how 'cool' you are.

What is 'her level' in your mind?

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Kompressor

Come out of the closet.


WB Merc

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Sir-Ex

Is that what I means when you know a hot girl and don't have a desire to fuck her but would like to be friends?



OHSHITIMGAY

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Ditch the cigs!!!!!!

Mafoo

best way would be to act like shes not hot or w/e. shes probably fairly used to guys fawning over her or w/e the term is, so im sure youd stand out in the crowd(if they all squat down) if you just dont give her that type of undivided attention.

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For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return

Sir-Ex

Someone bumped on old thread of yours Sars, from like 2008 or something.


So did you ever get your sex drive back?

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Ditch the cigs!!!!!!

The Rev

I haven't read the thread, but it seems to me that anyone who tries to reduce a human being to a rating (1 to 10) is seriously missing the point.



The Rev

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Cerebro

I think the best place to start is with eye contact.
Hot chicks are very perseptive and will appreciate that you appear to be taking an interest in them.
They are often vain, so have a direction in mind if she asks you what her best feature is. It's a tough question, but a thoughtful answer will stand you out from the crowd.
But it's all play for tricks.

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The SARS Volta

for REAL.

lesser evolved guys subscribing to the numeric ranking system is not uncommon, though.
sure enough, same knuckle-draggers are quick to dismiss women as shallow cunts for having preferences toward male appearance.

yeah--chicks who don't acknowledge men under 6'2 that aren't also built like olympic swimmers arguably ARE shallow cunts--although no more than the guy who rates women that probably wouldn't fuck him (even as a joke).

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kamikazi89

might i suggest some ani defranco..and if you're not a better person for it then we go with the lily allen

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tedkennedy

haaha good one

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matthew munari

profit

by having balls. whatever the hell that means to you do it.

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Roach

There were, are, and always will be those human clones who cannot detect true cool.



looks, like wealth, can be gone in an instant.

If you're not willing to have breakfast across the table from her for the rest of your life...don't go there.

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kamikazi89

next time don't be so impressed, it's too late for that now..thus the resentment on your part

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The SARS Volta

another unfortunate matter is guys frequently hitting on you means a majority of those who do so are fucking creepers.genuinely nice, 'quality' men don't make unsolicited passes at strangers unless at singles meet-ups or comparable settings. she's probably jaded from it.
if a girl's at work/out in public when(out of the blue)random dude chases her down to make conversation, the source of his spontaneous interest is very clear. the pursuer automatically comes off desperate and superficial by sweating somebody he's never met.

definitely not insinuating that's what merc is doing--it's not. just saying, attention isn't flattering from the wrong people.

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anitablaze

go up to her.
tell her how irresitibly cool you are. straight up. girls love honesty.
then tell her you rate her as an 8.5
andddd cats in the bag.

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Waves

they arent being rated as people. the only aspect of them being rated is their physical attractiveness.

he even said shes a bitch and hes not trying to fuck her. the scale is strictly to describe how fit and attractive you are. and im sorry but there are objective standards for grading fitness and attractiveness. if that comes off as harsh, nature is a harsh and unforgiving bitch. everyone knows an ugly guy/chick is ugly and everyone knows a hot chick/guy is hot. (again, purely in terms of physical attractivness) In between those two polar opposites is a vast grey area that necessitates the 1-10 scale's existence. its not just subjective standards its something that nature has built into us to determine how fit our partner is going to be and to make sure hes/she an acceptable mate. thats why you see rich dudes with hot young wives. thats why hot people date other hot people for chrissake.

and sars- thats nonsense. chicks use the 1-10 system just as much as guys do.

to me you start going into "shallow" territory when you start pre-judging people based on their appearance, OR you act differently to other people based on their appearance/attractiveness. if you are fit/attractive, there is nothing wrong or shallow with wanting a fit/attractive mate. thats nature. that doesnt mean that you should judge people based strictly on how attractive they are.

ps- mercury is back! fuck yes! this post rocked!

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The years go fast and the days go so slow

Lloydy

whatever happened to Merc and SARS

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kamikazi89

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