im going to hell. at least out on the streets. - Page 2

Roach · 03-23-2011, 07:58 PM

a boot to the face is always helpfull.

anitb...do you sleep "normally"
sleep deprivation can trigger all sorts of psychosis.
prolonged deprivation can cause permanent psychosis.

just a thought, based on experience.

Kilana · 03-24-2011, 12:08 AM

Ah, yes... I've had many-a onesome in my life...

Grieves · 03-24-2011, 12:09 AM

Sounds like you need to get in touch with the fact that you can't do it alone and need to ask for some help, not support, but some real hard up good honest ass kicking change yourself help...

Call family, they are their to teach you those lessons or at least lend an ear, don't unload, just honestly ask for help, and for fuck sakes know what you want before you ask...

Get your shit together, no one is going to do it for you...

The Rev · 03-24-2011, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by FoTwenny

You sound like a straight up loser.

That's really fucking helpful. No one finds themselves in a shitty situation because that's what they want. It is the circumstances of our lives that we don't wilfully control that put us there, both from within and from without. You kick someone when they're down like that and all you do is add to the pain that is standing in their way.

I agree with Grieves, in that it would be a good time to reach out to friends or family and ask for some help till you're able to get back on your feet. You should also talk to your doctor about your anxiety troubles. If your thoughts are on prostitution as your only option, I think there's more to the story of your current situation than just bad luck or timing. You sound like you're carrying one hell of a weight. There are shelters, women's help centers, welfare programs, and more to help, as well.

Go into solving this problem like you have a right to get somewhere better, like you have a right to be happy in your life, because you do. Good luck.

The Rev

my_scatterheart · 03-24-2011, 04:15 AM

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Originally Posted by anitablaze

I don't think you guys realize how difficult it is to find a job these days. I mean, I have decent references. I volunteer at the sally once a week, have done a few volunteering things before. I have a really good reference from working at a drag place, but that was for 5 years back when I was 13-18. Nothing recent! I've been doing door to door recently. It's just not the type of thing you put on a resume.

I've tried mcdonalds, tim hortons, dumb places like that, then bartending or serving gigs. Anything I can! And I was jobless for 4 months. It's insane. It jacked my debt wayyyy up and I just simply can't live like that again. I need a job ASAP

It wasn't bad enough out there that you waited to masturbate. You made a decision. Now it's time to make another. Go out there and make the right one.

farmergiles · 03-24-2011, 05:44 AM

A reminder-
this is G&S not FFA, constructive comments are welcome, flaming is not.

turmaline · 03-24-2011, 04:53 PM

Don't make excuses..... go spend your day making it your job to get a job so you don't have to traumatise yourself by doing such a ...you know what I mean..I know how hard it is to get a job and support yourself I have to do it ,myself as well as looking after "other" humans..and I am doing it..so you can do it too..Go do it.

There are people and places that will help you...so you don't have to do something drastic.

Jester4yall · 03-24-2011, 05:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr.T

Don't make excuses..... go spend your day making it your job to get a job so you don't have to traumatise yourself by doing such a ...you know what I mean..I know how hard it is to get a job and support yourself I have to do it ,myself as well as looking after "other" humans..and I am doing it..so you can do it too..Go do it.

There are people and places that will help you...so you don't have to do something drastic.

I agree completely with Mr. T on not doing anything drastic and the whole make your job getting a job concept. That's a good way to look @ it

anitablaze · 03-25-2011, 07:31 AM

I know. And I wish I could without stressing about it constantly. I guess this is too big of an issue to honestly expect the answer I need tailored to my situation to come out of a forum on world wide web. I guess I'll have to make a call to somewhere and get some professional knowledge applied to this problem.
Thanks for the concern, and the ideas. I really do appreciate it.

turmaline · 03-25-2011, 10:48 AM

Dude, life is "stress" it's a normal thing to "stress"...you have to realise that. It won't change..so you just need to realise that and take the good with the bad..come here and bitch about it and we'll try to make you feel better.

Black · 03-28-2011, 08:26 PM

Best of luck to you.
Remember, when presented with two choices the one that is more work is usually the right one.

**SageTree** · 03-29-2011, 06:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr.T

Dude, life is "stress" it's a normal thing to "stress"...you have to realise that. It won't change..so you just need to realise that and take the good with the bad..come here and bitch about it and we'll try to make you feel better.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Black

Best of luck to you.
Remember, when presented with two choices the one that is more work is usually the right one.

Both ace advice

03-23-2011, 07:58 PM	#21 (permalink)
Roach Victoria Aut Mors Join Date: Dec 1999 Posts: 7,143 Thanks: 2,362 Thanked 1,974 Times in 1,500 Posts	a boot to the face is always helpfull. anitb...do you sleep "normally" sleep deprivation can trigger all sorts of psychosis. prolonged deprivation can cause permanent psychosis. just a thought, based on experience. __________________ לזיין את הקופים

03-24-2011, 12:08 AM	#22 (permalink)
Kilana YaHookan Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: London, Canada Posts: 84 Thanks: 59 Thanked 13 Times in 11 Posts	Ah, yes... I've had many-a onesome in my life... __________________ "It's my body, thank you very much; I'll do what I want with it." ---Kilana Martin "I am what I am because of who we all are" ---African Proverb

03-24-2011, 12:09 AM	#23 (permalink)
Grieves The Worst Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Interstate 8 Posts: 12,072 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 2,533 Thanked 3,100 Times in 1,703 Posts	Sounds like you need to get in touch with the fact that you can't do it alone and need to ask for some help, not support, but some real hard up good honest ass kicking change yourself help... Call family, they are their to teach you those lessons or at least lend an ear, don't unload, just honestly ask for help, and for fuck sakes know what you want before you ask... Get your shit together, no one is going to do it for you... __________________ "And no matter what they said dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever"

03-24-2011, 05:44 AM	#26 (permalink)
farmergiles Yahookan Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Sick of the hatred and the lies Posts: 7,779 Thanks: 2,272 Thanked 3,734 Times in 2,546 Posts	A reminder- this is G&S not FFA, constructive comments are welcome, flaming is not. __________________ Cultivate a stoic calmness *Fuck the Monkeys* Every Kind of Vice

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turmaline hotdog! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: CANADA Posts: 1,671 Thanks: 513 Thanked 924 Times in 535 Posts	Don't make excuses..... go spend your day making it your job to get a job so you don't have to traumatise yourself by doing such a ...you know what I mean..I know how hard it is to get a job and support yourself I have to do it ,myself as well as looking after "other" humans..and I am doing it..so you can do it too..Go do it. There are people and places that will help you...so you don't have to do something drastic. __________________ "I'd rather a frontallabotomy...th an a bottleinfrontofme". Last edited by turmaline; 03-24-2011 at 04:59 PM.

03-25-2011, 07:31 AM	#29 (permalink)
anitablaze here,takethispill. Join Date: May 2008 Location: up your butt and around the corner Posts: 266 Blog Entries: 8 Thanks: 47 Thanked 47 Times in 40 Posts	I know. And I wish I could without stressing about it constantly. I guess this is too big of an issue to honestly expect the answer I need tailored to my situation to come out of a forum on world wide web. I guess I'll have to make a call to somewhere and get some professional knowledge applied to this problem. Thanks for the concern, and the ideas. I really do appreciate it. __________________ If your neighbours keep you up at night, then talk to em, don't start a fight. Don't be so quick to call police, for its just the fascist cogs you grease. The rest can choke on fate and apple pie. -stza

03-25-2011, 10:48 AM	#30 (permalink)
turmaline hotdog! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: CANADA Posts: 1,671 Thanks: 513 Thanked 924 Times in 535 Posts	Dude, life is "stress" it's a normal thing to "stress"...you have to realise that. It won't change..so you just need to realise that and take the good with the bad..come here and bitch about it and we'll try to make you feel better. __________________ "I'd rather a frontallabotomy...th an a bottleinfrontofme".

03-28-2011, 08:26 PM	#31 (permalink)
Black YaHookan Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 760 Thanks: 366 Thanked 308 Times in 196 Posts	Best of luck to you. Remember, when presented with two choices the one that is more work is usually the right one. __________________ formality known as higherlearner84, la coka nostra and finding balance.

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