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Originally Posted by The SARS Volta
or there's some catch to the situation
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like what? distance? money?
Um. But no, I'm a guy and I feel pretty much the same way. I don't want to put my energy into something pointless. There's a point to meaningless sex, I guess, but I can't get to into that trip. I don't want to settle down or commit to someone but I don't want to be with someone just to get it on. I want there to be a mental connection as well as a physical one and right now being single makes more sense to me.
I would love to have a relationship that meats my ideal but sometimes I wonder if my ideal is impossible. Yet it doesn't really seem that unreasonable. I just want someone who likes to do the same things I do, has a lot of common interests and opinions but also brings a completely new perspective to light. I met someone exactly like this and needless to say it didn't work out.
I'm not really trying that hard because it's not that important to me right now, but it would be nice.
So, I don't think you're alone.