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Originally Posted by The SARS Volta
I'm not someone who goes out and LOOKS for the right person, but one to wait for them to come along.
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Here's your problem, right here. If you want ANYTHING, you have to go out and make it happen. In spite of all the rhetoric about "Love will find you just when you stop looking for it", there's nothing worthwhile in life that you don't have to work for.
I mean, imagine if you took the other things of importance in your life that way. You won't look for a job, but instead, wait for the right one to come to you. You won't look for a nice place to live, but instead, wait for someone to bring it to you. You'd end up with shit in life.
If you want a certain kind of guy, get clear on what it is you want and start looking for that. My guess is, you'll find him in a matter of months. You're a pretty girl, you're cool, funny, easygoing, all of it. Just decide what you want, and start looking, and don't get into anything until you find what you're looking for. It's like my mama said, "You gotta shop around."
The Rev