I think it's overrated. People get all starry-eyed at the thought of a wedding and end up marrying people they really don't want to be with for a lifetime. My man and I have been together for over 5 years now, and everyone is CONSTANTLY on our nuts about when we're going to tie the knot. But we're in no rush. Every married couple we talk to tells us to take our time and make absolutely sure we belong together before taking that final step. And what's funny is that we are pretty sure we want to stay together for as long as we're alive, but I still see no need for an elaborate (and costly) way of announcing to the world that we're together. Maybe someday we will, but for now we're happy living in sin.
