[reverie]

Wow spicoli , thats pretty messed up. I'm sorry to hear about it all and how its affected you.

Personally for me, my parents divorce didn't impact me very much at all. All I really remember is not believing they were breaking up. My Dad was away a lot and I dont have many memories of the 3 of us together as a family. That probably has a big influence on why Im not that impacted by their divorce. I just kinda went with the flow from then on..never resented them, shit happens and both are an active part of my life still. Good and bad thing resulted from the situations that followed. And thankfully the good outweighs the bad by a significant amount.

I feel like in any situation one must always be true to themselves. So if you feel like you should talk to your parents about their divorce then you certainly should..because you may always be fighting that feeling of wishing to express to them. Keep in mind that you may not get the reaction that you may hope for but it also may give a peace of mind..by simply getting it off your chest. I say go for it.

All the best