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Well that's the problem, for the most part. A lot of people dive head first into marriage without really considering all the long term effects. I couldn't tell you how many people I know who got married within less than 2 years of knowing their partner. WTF is that? They'd get married while they're still in the lovey-dovey phase and then shit hits the fan.
The problem I have with a lot of people who think marriage is crap is this: they're willing to bring something as permanent as a child into a relationship (who can't be removed unless it dies and thefore binds you to your partner for probably the rest of your life) but they're not willing to commit to something that can easily be earased with a divorce. Mind you, I'm part of that crew having a child with a guy I've been with for 5 years without marriage...but I piss myself off for that reason.
The thing is, someday...if it happens...I feel it's special being able to call someone my husband. To me, that's like saying "I trust this person enough to know they won't fuck me over" to put it simply. I do, however, feel that 90% of people currently married shouldn't be and that those who are not yet should think a lot harder about marriage if they plan on it.
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grape jelly is clearly for fags. GTFO out here with your testicle-shaped fruit products.
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the other day i was in physics lab and i happened to be sitting with a bunch of asians and one girl was making paper roses, and i thought to myself, omg these people are so asian and im so white, this is so wierd.
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