Verk and I have been together for a long time. I kept pushing it because I'm a girl and I wanted a wedding. We were pretty much "married." I mean, we had been living together for like 3 years, we have our kids, all that stuff but I wanted that one last big step. We got married of course and it feels great. I mean, I knew he loved me and everything, but I wanted that "final commitment" to seal it all together. Even when we weren't married yet, he would refer to me as his wife. I liked it but it didn't feel right to call him my husband because he wasn't. Now I can call him my husband daily and it feels so nice. It's finally complete.
Make sure you really know a person before you get married. You might think you know them but live with them for a while and things might change. Make sure you can handle seeing that person constantly and that you get along and agree on important things in life. Marriage is not that bad. It's a beautiful thing, if you find the right person.