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Yup, your relationship is doomed, either now or two years from now, it won't matter. There's too much baggage that you're both carrying from the past. the differences are too many, and for one party to ask the other to compromise their actions is not fair.
At least you haven't brought kids into the picture, then it would be even messier.
My advice would be to make a clean break, and try to date someone else for awhile. Don't even contact your ex for some time, at least a couple months. IF you still find yourself pining away for this guy who brings your down all the time, get counseling.
Staying in a bad relationship just for the sex is an awful way to live day-to-day. If he's not fulfilling your basic needs for companionship and is only a tool for sex, you can get that guilt free elsewhere.
Then again, what do I know? I've had ONE solid relationship in my 37 years on this planet, of course, it's ongoing and in about a month we'll be celebrating our 8th anniversary.
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