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Spicoli - I'm with you, and I'm a guy. Nobody's perfect. When I was younger, I was dating one girl and then started "feeling around" with another, trying to figure things out. I liked my current girlfriend, but she made it too difficult to be in a relationship. She was always testing me and pushing me, and I just got tired of it, so I "reached out" just like just about EVERYONE has done, and I "tested the waters" with another girl. No, I don't mean sex, just talked and hung out, and yes, a little kissing, etc.
And, I've dated women who's "best friend" was a guy and she was clearly cheating on me with him. (Hell, in one instance, I think it was a "her".)
Guys are no better than girls. Girls are no better than guys. Each one will screw you and do what they have/want to do, when it comes down to it. Everyones' looking out for themselves, unfortunately.
The one thing I will say, is that I agree with those who tell you to back off. Don't just hang around, waiting for her to make up her mind.
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