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Originally Posted by AnimalLover420
I knew it! I knew happy men existed! Our families have really been pressuring us to get married, and I was very excited about the idea of it at first. But the more I think about it, the more a lifetime of shitty moods and gloomy days seems like the exact opposite of what I desire for my life. But I'm just so close to him, I've never been so comfortable around anyone. Sometimes I think that I'm happy enough for the both of us, but it just gets old being constantly reminded of the shitty things in life.
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there are some important things i have learned about myself in regards to how my mood affects my experiences. people who stress and whine and bitch about everything really bring me down. in my mind i don't have enough time on this planet to be in a bad mood every time i am inconvenienced. such a lifestyle seems ridiculous to me. not to hijack your thread or anything, i will say that both of my parents have this effect on me. my mom is the worst though. she
always stresses about everything and i can't handle it. being around someone in that type of mood absolutely affects my mood and how much i enjoy that particular day. if we both have to be somewhere in the morning i will wake up an hour earlier than necessary so i can eat breakfast in peace, and then take a nap before i leave the house. i have to completely avoid both of them sometimes, which makes me glad that i'm going to living in a different country soon. anyway that was a bit off topic..
being comfortable and being compatible are different things. i have had a few females that i have been totally comfortable with, yet i am too stupid to enjoy myself if i don't see a future in the relationship. its small things like your issue with your boyfriend that i personally can't ignore. i am too quick to dismiss people for those reasons and the result is that i am perpetually single.
how bad is it with him? does it affect your moods a lot? would you be happy being single?
funny how a man with a wonderful woman can be so gloomy, while myself i am content yet alone.