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Originally Posted by AnimalLover420
Okay guys, I've got an update. Well, sort of. I feel like this guy is really good to me and I need to at least give it a bit more time before just dropping him. I'm pretty picky when it comes to men, so it's amazing that he's been able to keep me pleased this long. He really does try to work with me so that we can be happy rather than going down the shitter and turning into one of those couples who don't even like each other anymore but insist on staying together. So I had a nice heart to heart talk with him about what I've been feeling. We agreed upon trying to make shit work between us and doing our best to accommodate each other so that our differences don't hurt our relationship. He's been a lot more fun to be around lately, and he's been very understanding when I go out and do shit with my girls to get my social fix. But there's still one major problem. I'm still very unsatisfied in the bedroom. I'm not saying he's a bad lay, because he's actually very good. I'm just not very turned on by our routine. He expects me to put out like I always did, but he doesn't pursue me like he used to. He never just knocks my ass onto the bed and starts ravaging me. I assume this is just a natural part of being in a long-term relationship? And if so, what can I do to get that spark back? I want some crazy ass monkey sex in my life again, dammit!!
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maybe u should tell him you want some crazy monkey sex and you guys can start browsing the local zoos. i guess being open about these things is the best way to go about it.