when you say routine I empathise
wifey had the notion that I had just stopped, how did you put it, "just knocks my ass onto the bed and starts ravaging me", yeah, knocking her ass down and ravaging her sounds about right
truth is, I've become so used to her body language I don't need to pursue her like I used to, it's obvious to me through history based experience when I am and when I am not likely to get laid
apparently occasionally in our relationship no not only means yes, it means knock me on my arse and ravage me like a man
What with everyday life, children raising to do, visitors, our commitment to housing people in crisis, we don't get enough time to be each other's lovers.
Wifey isn't just the girl I fell in love with, she has other roles. Mother, cook, friend, neighbour, etc. Sometimes we just need to take time out to really fuck the shit out of each other and make it special.
I do enjoy a good ravage, so these days we have to squirrel money away to get out of the house overnight for some really freaky fun.
Recently we booked into one of the nicer hotels in a town called Ballina on the coast, more of an old persons retirement village than coastal town, but we weren't planning on any outdoor recreation, rather some indoor procreation.
Just knowing the lust we have is still available for the priceof some privacy and time to enjoy keeps us going between feeds.