[-Anonymous-]

Originally Posted by WhatUsedToBe

Its funny you posted this cause I am in the same exact dilemma. I dont wanna hijack your thread but I too would also like some advice, and I dont see a point in starting a new thread dealing with the same thing..

My situation:

A week ago my mom decided it'd be nice of her to clean out my car... Of course, she finds my bowl, my weed, lighter, jar and everything else. So being a mother, she flushes my weed and gets rid of my bowl. About 15min ago my dad called me into the garage to have a talk with me. Basically he made me feel like shit cause I smoke. He tells me he has friends who are moody assholes when they dont smoke, and that I sometimes get moody because I am jonesin for some weed (thats what he thinks). I have uncles and aunts who have thrown their lives down the drain from other drugs, but it started from weed. He goes on to tell me that its a stupid idea for me to drive while im high cause god forbid if I hurt myself or others, I would never be able to explain myself. Then he brings up the fact that im running a 100% risk of smoking something laced with bleach,rat poison, whatever. And if I keep up smoking, im gonna end up a brain dead loser and he doesn't want that cause im a smart kid with a bright future ahead of me. Then he ends the conversation with, It was a phase and now its over, its time to grow up and look ahead for your future... Just tell me if you need help quitting, they have places for that.

I wanna keep smoking... I love smokin when im alone, I really enjoy it. But I dont want my parents to think lowly of me. Even at the age of 19, I care alot about their opinion of me.

What do I do..

You're old enough to make your own decisions....I hope anyways.