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Old 07-11-2008, 07:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
ZimZum
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In love with a girl that has a daughter...

So, after dropping out of Berklee College of Music and fucking around/working for about 4 years I decided to go back to school. Everything went good for the first semester back in college, the best part being this girl I met. We got along great, she was flirty with me I was flirty with her. She even has a past history of abusing Oxycontin, which actually made her even more perfect for me because it means she understands my problems with heroin/opioid abuse much more than most women I meet.
This girl is also a single mother with an absolutely adorable 2 1/2 year old daughter. Just to set the record straight, the fact the she has a kid doesn't bother me. If anything it actually makes me more attracted to her, I was raised by a single mother myself. Anyway, over the past few months we've hung out a lot, either at school or I'd go over to her place to have dinner with her and her daughter and so me and her could work on homework.
If anyone is wondering, the father of her kid is in jail for about another year, drug trafficking or some such thing as that. Right now me and her are just friends, she knows I like her a lot and want something more but she doesn't wanna move to quickly into a relationship with any guy. Her daughter absolutely loves me and coming over to my house, of course I also live across the street from a preschool/kindergarten/1st grade school.
I'm not exactly sure why I'm writing this but if anyone on these boards has kids of their own maybe they could offer me some advise on my situation. I just don't know if there is anything I can do to show her that I'm not looking to just get in her pants.
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