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There are lots of fun things to do, I bet you could come up with ten off the top of your head. Such as going to the zoo, a new restaurant, seeing a movie, a walk in a new park. Exploring a new town if you have a car, a picnic, etc etc.

But really, I can say all of those things and they still just don't sound too enticing do they?

Its a mild depression. You can fill the time and space with hobbies and self-improvement, which would make you even more fertile and ready for what I am about to say, but what you really need to make any of those many activities you can easily come up with fun... is someone special to do them with.

Its really a shame that they don't teach us about how to build relationships in school, or give us a way to build confidence in flirting, to understand what it really is and why it needs to work that way, but they don't. You know these things intrinsically inside yourself, you just need to make yourself more and more fertile to accepting them. Self improvement etc will do just that. But if your already fertile enough, its a seed you need. A special someone.

Remember everyone, new friends, cute girls, they are all just people with flaws and insecurities like you, no matter how perfect their exterior looks, and if you remember that it will be easier to plant that new seed when you find it.

That's really insightful, man. Thanks.