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No time to waste on asking yourself whats wrong.
You need to ask yourself what is, was, or would be right!
I find people often look for the problem before they look for the answer. In a logical scenario this is the best approach(Men tend to be more logical IMO). But in a scenario of the emotions this can lead to a pitty pit-fall(not to say that's your case, but it's certainly happened to me).
What I would reccomend is not focusing on what went wrong, what you could have done, etc. What I would focus on is what was right, what good happened, why.
Sometimes people look back at their ex's during times of loneliness and hard-ship. I think they do this because they just want to "go back", to when things were "good". This is achievable and happens sometimes, however, when you "go back" you have to realize memories cannot come twice. You cannot recreate the past, and re-enactments are meant for once a year not a whole year.
So find what let's you be the normal you, what keeps you going, what good influences you. Engolf your mind with these ideas and things. Find your edges before you try to fit yourself back into the puzzle of love. If your nodes still fits into her heart then by god go for it, by whatever means feasible. If you figure out something more about yourself, go out and find someone else who makes you feel the way you should.
But most of all, be real, with yourself. The realer you keep yourself the better things come to you. If your gonna put up a false gate at any moment, expect to have unwanted key's prying at your handle. Ya dig?
Kinda went all over the place with that, but hopefully it helped to some degree.
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