what do you do when . . .

Über King · 01-04-2007, 02:48 AM

your g/f accuses you of cheating, when your honestly not. theres no way to prove im not. its just frustrating

Über King · 01-04-2007, 03:18 AM

What gives her that impression is i told her i loved her, she asked me if i was feeling guilty and now she isnt speaking to me
I am never gone for long periods of time and always have some means of contact on me
I have close friends, but so does she
I dont have kids
I try to make her feel like shes the center of my universe, but she never beleives me
I tell her i love her on a nearly daily basis
i cant afford to take her out anywhere swankey, but i try my best to do somthing nice with what little money i have for her.

Lloydy · 01-04-2007, 05:35 AM

you're fucked mate
there is absolutely nothing you can do to make her believe you

**AlteredStateGrl** · 01-04-2007, 06:41 AM

Is this the same girl that "wanted a break" and liked your friend? I'm gonna say, if it is, she's accusing you of things you didn't do, to start problems. That way, it's easier to end things. Blame something else.

**AlteredStateGrl** · 01-04-2007, 06:43 AM

Yeah...this girl?

Breaks

hammerhead · 01-04-2007, 07:42 AM

buy her some shampoo?

I mean seriously, who the fuck does she think youre cheating with?

**Cerebro** · 01-04-2007, 08:03 AM

ASG's on the money. Some girls try to find fault in every relationship, it gives a "get out of jail, free" card to them, redeemable at anytime. I'd ask her where she sees the relationship being in two years, because it sounds quite one sided from here.

Lloydy · 01-04-2007, 08:55 AM

any bets shes getting into your mate and is looking for an excuse to finish you so she doesnt look like a total and utter bitch
this happened to me. what a barrel of laughs that was

hammerhead · 01-04-2007, 09:02 AM

i cant think of any of his mates that would be interested, not trying to be harsh i just cant think of any

Über King · 01-04-2007, 02:21 PM

ouch

**Hedons** · 01-07-2007, 08:09 AM

This is a really simple situation to deal with... if you have the balls to do it...

If you didn't cheat on her, it's a bullshit thing to be accused of by someone you're supposedly in a relationship with.

If you try to defend yourself, you aggravate the situation, breed more suspicion, and reinforce her accusatory behavior.

If you're smart, tell her your breaking up with her (and be prepared to) because...

1. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust you. After all, trust is a cornerstone in a relationship.

2. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who would continue to be in a relationship in which they thought the other was cheating on them.

I don't think this sounds like a healthy realationship, but should you wish to pursue it, take my advice and call her bluff (but only if you're really prepared to walk away from it). She is either really insecure, or she is doing it for attention. Perhaps a little of both.

-Hedons

**Cerebro** · 01-08-2007, 06:54 AM

good advise, I rate that.

High Roller · 01-08-2007, 07:52 PM

listen to that Hedons guy.

**Hawk Eye** · 01-08-2007, 07:57 PM

Tell her to prove it!

delta9THC · 01-11-2007, 02:15 PM

Well Fat Joe, it sounds like you have a real problem. Sounds like she is cheatting on you and the guilt is causing her to blame you. That way she is justified in her actions by accusing you of the same. Just ask yourself...what would Fat Joe do?

Mafoo · 01-11-2007, 11:36 PM

dump here, shes cheating!

thats why she is sooo damn supsicious of you

Mafoo · 01-11-2007, 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pickle420

Where is HTAM????

Dude, Break it now. I promise when your poking some strange... it'll feel great. Just dont cry afterwards

dont cry

im trying not to cry right now im laughing so hard

**Cerebro** · 01-12-2007, 03:55 AM

So, it's more than a week later, what happened mang?

01-04-2007, 02:48 AM	#1 (permalink)
Über King yabooban Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The ÜK Posts: 2,614 Thanks: 13 Thanked 23 Times in 14 Posts	what do you do when . . . your g/f accuses you of cheating, when your honestly not. theres no way to prove im not. its just frustrating __________________ You wake up at Seatac, SFO, LAX. You wake up at O'Hare, Dallas-Fort Worth, BWI. Pacific, mountain, central. Lose an hour, gain an hour. This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time. You wake up at Air Harbor International. If you wake up at a different time, in a different place, could you wake up as a different person? http://www.youtube.com/user/speckyecky

01-04-2007, 03:18 AM	#2 (permalink)
Über King yabooban Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The ÜK Posts: 2,614 Thanks: 13 Thanked 23 Times in 14 Posts	What gives her that impression is i told her i loved her, she asked me if i was feeling guilty and now she isnt speaking to me I am never gone for long periods of time and always have some means of contact on me I have close friends, but so does she I dont have kids I try to make her feel like shes the center of my universe, but she never beleives me I tell her i love her on a nearly daily basis i cant afford to take her out anywhere swankey, but i try my best to do somthing nice with what little money i have for her. __________________ You wake up at Seatac, SFO, LAX. You wake up at O'Hare, Dallas-Fort Worth, BWI. Pacific, mountain, central. Lose an hour, gain an hour. This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time. You wake up at Air Harbor International. If you wake up at a different time, in a different place, could you wake up as a different person? http://www.youtube.com/user/speckyecky

01-04-2007, 06:41 AM	#4 (permalink)
AlteredStateGrl (òÓ,)_\,,/ Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Where Trouble Melts Like Lemon Drops High Above the Chimney Tops... Posts: 8,801 Thanks: 459 Thanked 231 Times in 164 Posts	Is this the same girl that "wanted a break" and liked your friend? I'm gonna say, if it is, she's accusing you of things you didn't do, to start problems. That way, it's easier to end things. Blame something else. __________________

01-04-2007, 06:43 AM	#5 (permalink)
AlteredStateGrl (òÓ,)_\,,/ Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Where Trouble Melts Like Lemon Drops High Above the Chimney Tops... Posts: 8,801 Thanks: 459 Thanked 231 Times in 164 Posts	Yeah...this girl? Breaks __________________

01-04-2007, 02:21 PM	#10 (permalink)
Über King yabooban Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The ÜK Posts: 2,614 Thanks: 13 Thanked 23 Times in 14 Posts	ouch __________________ You wake up at Seatac, SFO, LAX. You wake up at O'Hare, Dallas-Fort Worth, BWI. Pacific, mountain, central. Lose an hour, gain an hour. This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time. You wake up at Air Harbor International. If you wake up at a different time, in a different place, could you wake up as a different person? http://www.youtube.com/user/speckyecky

01-04-2007, 08:03 AM	#7 (permalink)
Cerebro Non Reactive Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: White Plume Mountain Posts: 2,276 Thanks: 2 Thanked 81 Times in 73 Posts	ASG's on the money. Some girls try to find fault in every relationship, it gives a "get out of jail, free" card to them, redeemable at anytime. I'd ask her where she sees the relationship being in two years, because it sounds quite one sided from here.

01-07-2007, 08:09 AM	#11 (permalink)
Hedons Ribbed for her pleasure! Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: Delta(x) times Delta(p) is greater than or equal to h-bar over two. Posts: 4,509 Thanks: 17 Thanked 89 Times in 59 Posts	This is a really simple situation to deal with... if you have the balls to do it... If you didn't cheat on her, it's a bullshit thing to be accused of by someone you're supposedly in a relationship with. If you try to defend yourself, you aggravate the situation, breed more suspicion, and reinforce her accusatory behavior. If you're smart, tell her your breaking up with her (and be prepared to) because... 1. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust you. After all, trust is a cornerstone in a relationship. 2. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who would continue to be in a relationship in which they thought the other was cheating on them. I don't think this sounds like a healthy realationship, but should you wish to pursue it, take my advice and call her bluff (but only if you're really prepared to walk away from it). She is either really insecure, or she is doing it for attention. Perhaps a little of both. -Hedons __________________ New and improved! Now with flushable applicator.

01-08-2007, 06:54 AM	#12 (permalink)
Cerebro Non Reactive Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: White Plume Mountain Posts: 2,276 Thanks: 2 Thanked 81 Times in 73 Posts	good advise, I rate that.

01-08-2007, 07:52 PM	#13 (permalink)
High Roller holding my balls... Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: b.c Posts: 384 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	listen to that Hedons guy.

01-08-2007, 07:57 PM	#14 (permalink)
Hawk Eye Yahooka admin Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 15,119 Thanks: 16 Thanked 99 Times in 72 Posts	Tell her to prove it! __________________ If you want a drugfree country, then you must legalise. ~~BH~~

01-11-2007, 02:15 PM	#15 (permalink)
delta9THC Anyone seen my cheese? Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 606 Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts	Well Fat Joe, it sounds like you have a real problem. Sounds like she is cheatting on you and the guilt is causing her to blame you. That way she is justified in her actions by accusing you of the same. Just ask yourself...what would Fat Joe do? Last edited by delta9THC; 01-11-2007 at 02:35 PM.

01-11-2007, 11:36 PM	#16 (permalink)
Mafoo nice daze Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: a crazy place called my mind Posts: 1,455 Thanks: 77 Thanked 70 Times in 59 Posts	dump here, shes cheating! thats why she is sooo damn supsicious of you __________________ PLUR "Knowledge speaks, wisdom listens" Hendrix "A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger"- words to live by

01-12-2007, 03:55 AM	#18 (permalink)
Cerebro Non Reactive Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: White Plume Mountain Posts: 2,276 Thanks: 2 Thanked 81 Times in 73 Posts	So, it's more than a week later, what happened mang?

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