YaHooka Forums  

Go Back   YaHooka Forums > The YaHooka Lounge > Guidance & Support > Behind the Green Door

Behind the Green Door Questions and issues including health and personal issues of a sexual nature.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Rate Thread Display Modes
Old 01-24-2007, 04:37 PM   #1 (permalink)
New Dude on the Block
 
Manverue's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Here (duh)
Posts: 194
Thanks: 5
Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts
Men: Shallow?

I'm getting pretty sick and tired of bitches assuming all men are shallow.

Men and women think differently. Women look for personality because they are programmed to look for someone who will provide for their children. Men are programmed to look for looks in order to pick good genes for the children. Its all natural selection, just two different sides of it.

Thoughts?
Manverue is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 04:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
Infidelous Borealis
 
North_of_Sanity's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Canada
Posts: 5,967
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Yeah, it's like the universal "DUUUUH"

..but, agreed, women still don't get it, and men still don't care





^

Yeah, if men try to pick up women...they're pigs.

But if a woman feels like picking-up a man...they're just being women




I think we're all equally retarded and jealous peoples.

Women who like sex are sluts....men who like sex are pigs...

We're rarely ever just men and women being men and women...

We're all just naturally possessive, I guess. We think one sexual encounter means we own eachother's soul, ya know?! Then if we choose to walk away, then we feel a need to put a negative label on eachother.

We just hate admitting that sometimes we just annoy eachother, and can satisfy eachother for nothing more than sex.




...which is how I ended up being a huge man slut

Because I don't nurture women....I just make them horny and leave them as yelping piles of estrogen wanting more....which is why my gothy chicky will never, ever leave me....because I make her feel like a woman like no one else she meets ever will....regardless of how shitty I treat her.

She likes the way I fuck her way more than any dignity she might have left.
__________________
"His professional diagnosis: Narcissistic Personality Disorder. My unprofessional diagnosis: Nut-Job!" - Jim Rome

"I don't have a girlfriend. But I know a woman who would be upset if she heard me say that." - Mitch Hedberg

"Condoms are stupid" - some dirty ho

Last edited by North_of_Sanity; 01-24-2007 at 05:03 PM.
North_of_Sanity is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 04:45 PM   #3 (permalink)
Nostradumbass
 
The SARS Volta's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,404
Thanks: 7
Thanked 69 Times in 36 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by North_of_Sanity
Yeah, if men try to pick up women...they're pigs.

But if a woman feels like picking-up a man...they're just being women
Nah, they'll probably get called a slut.


Quote:
We're all just naturally possessive, I guess. We think one sexual encounter means we own eachother's soul, ya know?!
No, I don't think of it that way at all, and I'd find it bizarre if a man did.
The SARS Volta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 04:47 PM   #4 (permalink)
Nostradumbass
 
The SARS Volta's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,404
Thanks: 7
Thanked 69 Times in 36 Posts
Oh, and many women are shallow too. I have no problem admitting that I like good-looking men, but they have to be personable. Nothing wrong with high standards--everyone should have theirs.

I could never, ever be a gold-digger.
The SARS Volta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 04:47 PM   #5 (permalink)
YaHookan
 
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: md
Posts: 690
Thanks: 0
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
look everyone of course is gonna down another getting something they aint...so women who get what they want get downed by those little tight legged prudes running around the school hallways
__________________
"Its a foul system take weak minds and twist em/have niggas gone so long that niggas forget there missin" -Saigon
KingChiefy is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 04:50 PM   #6 (permalink)
Infidelous Borealis
 
North_of_Sanity's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Canada
Posts: 5,967
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by The SARS Volta
Nah, they'll probably get called a slut.

Oh, for sure. But I mean, she'll deny it all the way. She won't accept it.


On the other hand, I'm perfectly willing to admit I'm a man slut
__________________
"His professional diagnosis: Narcissistic Personality Disorder. My unprofessional diagnosis: Nut-Job!" - Jim Rome

"I don't have a girlfriend. But I know a woman who would be upset if she heard me say that." - Mitch Hedberg

"Condoms are stupid" - some dirty ho
North_of_Sanity is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:00 PM   #7 (permalink)
Nostradumbass
 
The SARS Volta's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,404
Thanks: 7
Thanked 69 Times in 36 Posts
I think it's slutty if it's a frequently repeated endeavor--which in a lot of cases, it isn't. I agree, sluts should be able to face their promiscuity and own up to it when accused.
The SARS Volta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:01 PM   #8 (permalink)
Infidelous Borealis
 
North_of_Sanity's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Canada
Posts: 5,967
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by The SARS Volta
No, I don't think of it that way at all, and I'd find it bizarre if a man did.

Oh, c'mon, if a guy walks away from a woman after one sexual encounter, the woman gets pretty damn pissed off like the man owes her his life!

She'll usually feel like hunting him down and chopping off his cock.
__________________
"His professional diagnosis: Narcissistic Personality Disorder. My unprofessional diagnosis: Nut-Job!" - Jim Rome

"I don't have a girlfriend. But I know a woman who would be upset if she heard me say that." - Mitch Hedberg

"Condoms are stupid" - some dirty ho
North_of_Sanity is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:04 PM   #9 (permalink)
Nostradumbass
 
The SARS Volta's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,404
Thanks: 7
Thanked 69 Times in 36 Posts
I don't think so. I and many other people know that a one-night stand should usually remain a one-night stand.

You have a warped perspective on the female mentality--especially because it is variant from every girl to girl.
The SARS Volta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:09 PM   #10 (permalink)
Infidelous Borealis
 
North_of_Sanity's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Canada
Posts: 5,967
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Well, yeah, I guess if the women knows beforehand that all she wants from the guy is his cock, then I guess she might not get mad.

But if she has feelings for him and he acts like he's in love with her, and he walks away after one fuck...then yeah, she'll kinda go coo-coo about it and feel like chopping his dick off...it's almost a given.
__________________
"His professional diagnosis: Narcissistic Personality Disorder. My unprofessional diagnosis: Nut-Job!" - Jim Rome

"I don't have a girlfriend. But I know a woman who would be upset if she heard me say that." - Mitch Hedberg

"Condoms are stupid" - some dirty ho
North_of_Sanity is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:11 PM   #11 (permalink)
Nostradumbass
 
The SARS Volta's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,404
Thanks: 7
Thanked 69 Times in 36 Posts
Acting like you're in love with someone when you're not is misleading and childish as hell, whether it's a man or woman doing it. I wouldn't personally go as far as saying I wanted to castrate someone, but I can imagine being offended.
The SARS Volta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:25 PM   #12 (permalink)
Just a friend
 
CowMan's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: On the other side
Posts: 2,573
Thanks: 1
Thanked 18 Times in 7 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by The SARS Volta
Acting like you're in love with someone when you're not is misleading and childish as hell, whether it's a man or woman doing it. I wouldn't personally go as far as saying I wanted to castrate someone, but I can imagine being offended.

totally agreed!

Also, I find women as a rule to be FAR more shallow then men.

And all this bullshit about 'programming' is fucking ludicrous. Women and men aren't programmed to do shit. Women just go for "personality" (aka. humor) for social concerns and someone who will let them live comfortably. Men go for women who will let them get their rocks off and compliment their lives socially, professionally and otherwise. It has nothing to do with programming or kids. Humans are selfish by nature. The rest comes as a result of that. Most relationships are just selfish indulgences. It's rare to find a person who is into pleasure just for pleasure's sake. All kinds of takers, not many givers. etc etc....

rambling...losing... coherency...must...s moke...weed......... .

__________________
He who hesitates is lost

CowMan is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:30 PM   #13 (permalink)
Nostradumbass
 
The SARS Volta's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,404
Thanks: 7
Thanked 69 Times in 36 Posts
Yeah, I can fully agree that there is no 'programming' of the genders.
I don't have an ounce of that stereotypical nurturing sugary shit women are 'supposed' to have, which could be because I was raised by my dad my entire childhood and I'm nineteen/not a parent.

Or I'm a zombie. Either way, win-win.
The SARS Volta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 05:35 PM   #14 (permalink)
Just a friend
 
CowMan's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: On the other side
Posts: 2,573
Thanks: 1
Thanked 18 Times in 7 Posts
^eat My Brains?!?
__________________
He who hesitates is lost

CowMan is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 07:16 PM   #15 (permalink)
pompous pecker
 
Mango's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Burma and eastern India
Posts: 2,592
Thanks: 175
Thanked 65 Times in 27 Posts
Women in high school atleast are just as shallow as men. I see more honest caring men then I do women. Majority of women I delt with in highschool are piece of shit cunt wrapes..
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Waves View Post
why join an internet community if your just going to rat on them and piss them off? its the pinnacle of selfish, immature behavior. your masturbating yourself.
Mango is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 07:46 PM   #16 (permalink)
That Man
 
Beyonder's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: the Netherlands
Posts: 1,058
Thanks: 3
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Send a message via ICQ to Beyonder Send a message via MSN to Beyonder Send a message via Yahoo to Beyonder
Quote:
Originally Posted by Manverue
I'm getting pretty sick and tired of bitches assuming all men are shallow.

Men and women think differently. Women look for personality because they are programmed to look for someone who will provide for their children. Men are programmed to look for looks in order to pick good genes for the children. Its all natural selection, just two different sides of it.

Thoughts?
...


Nope. I'm shallow. Did you say something?
__________________
He who lets the world, or his own portion of it, choose his plan of life for him, has no need of any other faculty than the ape-like one of imitation. He who chooses his plan for himself, employs all his faculties.

-John Stuart Mill, On Liberty

I must create a system or be enslaved by another mans; I will not reason and compare: my business is to create.

-William Blake
Beyonder is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 07:56 PM   #17 (permalink)
as is my want
 
Home Wrecker's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: getting something to eat
Posts: 3,919
Thanks: 9
Thanked 32 Times in 25 Posts
I think humans in general are pretty shallow.
__________________
Kill 'em all and let a norse god sort them out
Home Wrecker is online now  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 08:31 PM   #18 (permalink)
Rocks, lakes n treez
 
Canuck Wisdom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 8,430
Thanks: 349
Thanked 177 Times in 143 Posts
Send a message via ICQ to Canuck Wisdom Send a message via MSN to Canuck Wisdom
Maybe the 'shallow bar' should be raised then ^^ or lowered?

Truth be told, alot of 'hot' girls have found themselves fitted into the hot girl role by society and its like the cool thing to be shallow or ditsy. Then again there is a guy clique for that too.

But its not a sex thing, its a gender roles in society thing that forms how people paint their self portraits
__________________
-Knowitall A&P type-
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lloydy View Post
everything in moderarion (especially moderation)
Canuck Wisdom is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-24-2007, 08:35 PM   #19 (permalink)
Going Green
 
Mercury's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: First planet from the sun
Posts: 5,384
Thanks: 11
Thanked 126 Times in 55 Posts
I wouldn't say I'm "shallow"... I prefer "practical"
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Štulic View Post
You're the ONE ^

People, he's the ONE!



The ONE!!!11
Mercury is online now  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-25-2007, 08:31 AM   #20 (permalink)
Nostradumbass
 
The SARS Volta's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 3,404
Thanks: 7
Thanked 69 Times in 36 Posts
It makes sense to be shallow in a solely sexual way, because frankly...if you're going to hit it, you really should enjoy it.

As for long-term relationships, the looks and personality importance should always be 50/50.
The SARS Volta is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes