my freind

[nugglies]

my good friend of around a year and a bit came onto me when he was drunk the other night, i ignored it but it happened again, he like, tried to spoon me. and he keeps dry humping me.

i told him its NOT COOL but he doesnt seem to get the picture

WTF, has this happened to any of you?!1?!?.

my girlfreind just keeps telling me to relax and go with it, but i can tell when somethings up. since hes freinds with my girlfreind, he is around alot. and i am not gettin with him. cuz thats icky. just the thought of the fact that a dude might find me attractive creeps me right the fuck out.

what to do?

[Brand New Shoe]

are you a guy or a girl?

sounds like nugglies is a guy, BNS.


is the dude you're talking about gay? Like, has he told people he's gay?

[surf*and*smoke]

wow, not only is your best friend trying to have sex with you, but your girl is trying to get you to have a three way with him


if i were you i would tell her you arn't down, and tell him to cool it or you wont be hanging out with him much more

[OldMan&TheWeed]

That's odd. Most gay guys can take a hint.

If someone started touching me, and he didn't respond to a verbal warning, I'd pop him.

Originally Posted by OldMan&TheWeed

That's odd. Most gay guys can take a hint.

this is why I ask if he has told people he's gay. Perhaps he doesn't know himself yet, and is just in a really confused state.

[tedkennedy]

what he is doing is sexual harassment and you should tell him it makes you uncomfortable.

[nugglies]

im a dude.

he is, up until this point been quite the ladies man.
this would be the first signs of homosexuality hes ever shown me or anyone i know

i suppose theres actually a little bit i left out.

his girlfreind is freinds with my girlfreind. and we joke and talk about how awesome it would be if we could get them to go at it. he asked if i thought id do a foursome. i said. no, i just dont want your mits on my girl much less do i want you touchin me.



PS. nice sig ted.

[delta9THC]

hmmm, I draw the line at dry humping. If you're not gay and aren't curious then you should be able to get him to back off. When you talk to him are you making it out like a joke? If you are just playing it off like a joke or something then maybe he thinks you are into it. Talk to him one on one and let him know that you don't swing that way and that you find it funny. Or have you friend that you don't want that kind of behavior around you and that you and that if continues to behave like that towards you then you don't want him coming around. If it was a guy doing that to a girl he would either get his ass kicked or thrown in jail. Set boundaries and make sure they are clear and if validated you are going to have to take other measures to make sure he doesn't keep violating your personal space.

[OldSkewl]

yah, do w.e the fuck you can to show that guy you aint down with this.

" I dont want no balls rubbing against eachother"

[Epic]

Originally Posted by OldMan&TheWeed

That's odd. Most gay guys can take a hint.

If someone started touching me, and he didn't respond to a verbal warning, I'd pop him.

amen. If someone i hung out with pulled that shit on me id definently pop him one. That'll get the point across quick. Either that or just get him alone and say something like 'look dude i'm not gay, so please stop doing this stuff' Put it simple and to the point. Don't dance around it or he might get the idea that you do want to and are just too nervous or something.

[snowmayne]

Yea i kinda thought it was odd how u asked for advice on what to do about your gay guy friend hitting on you..

I thought it was pretty obvious.

[Štulic]

Nugglies, are you sure you're not gay?

[Lloydy]

If a bloke did that shit to me theyd have a glass or bottle round their face in seconds

[fenderbender]

^seriously..dry humpin wtf

id just tell him to stop if he doesnt rock him in the face and say it again

[M60Gunner]

Yep, Id kick his ass too. That Weird.

[KingofRx]

Lol, I like how everyones first response is VIOLENCE. Not first but you know what I mean. Anyway, a) your friend is drunk so theres a little leway there; but b) just ask whats goin on in most situations, most kids won't have the balls to tell you what they really feel since they will get that sense of embarassment. So all you really have to do is confront it and it should disapate.

[OldSkewl]

alcohol shouldnt be an excuse.

waiting for an update from nugg.

[nugglies]

well the other night we were chillin at my girlfreinds and he was drunk. again.
im laying on my stomache he lays down next to me. there were other people around so i didnt think anything would go down so but then he tried to touch my ass.

i said "i just cant handle any dude on dude action
you know thats just not how i roll, so if that happens again ill break your hand"

if always been quite hesitant to use violence on him cuz hes just SUCH a pussy. my mum could beat his ass down.


stulic- yes im sure im not gay

[OldSkewl]

that is fucking sad.

what was his reply?

dude you seriously need to take him to a corner and tell him wats up, make sure everything becomes clear and no more on.