i really dont meen to sound like an asshole

[dankasoarous07]

the girl im with now is beatufil, we have some classes together and have been going out for 2 months, we see eachother daily and hangout on the weekends watch movies kiss ect.but we havnt done anything sexually at all ive gone in for the kill but got negative responses back i ask her about it and she says she dosnt know. is it too early in the relationship to just get a bj or for the love of god a hand job?.shes just really weird when it comes to shit like this.

thanks too al that give advice

[BudBoy07]

Im sorry i dont have any advice. Im currently dealing with the same shit. I ask her about it and she says "I dont wanna talk about it". WTF? i dont understand females.

oh well.

[mr.nobody]

I guess you could work her a bit every time going a little farther then mabye just maybe she will put out....Better hope you wont be dining at the crab buffet


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[Ayatollah Of SmokeABowla]

well you have two choices i guess.....either end it with her and find a chick who is easier. it doesn't take a lot with most of the girls these days. if your really really into her though then you should stick with it and eventually it will happen. dont pressure her to do it as that will result in the ending of your relationship most likely. so just figure out what your gonna and do it brotha!!

[Snake-Eyes]

It sounds like you have communication problems. If you don't understand why she won't have sex with you and she doesn't understand why you want to have sex with her so badly, then you need definitely have things to work out.

Or get a hooker.

[surf*and*smoke]

fuck girls these days, more than happy to ride yo face but cant be bothered to give a little back



she probably just doesnt know and is embarassed

[Flipper]

I was in your exact situation recently. Amazing girl who I fell for, despite all of her glaring problems, who wouldn't get physical with me, nor with anyone. I broke it up with her after an amazing 4 weeks with her, and told her how I dunno what was wrong with her, but I like her, she likes me, I get her wet, but something wasn't working. I got some advice from a really promiscuous female friend of mine and her roomie, and she said that if a girl is looking for a long term bf, its not uncommon for her to refuse sex for up to 6 weeks, no matter how turned on she gets. I then apologized and got back with her. Next week I break up with her, same reason.

This is a real tough predicament to be in. On one hand, you have deep feelings for this person. On the other hand, I'm sure you get extremely sexually frustrated with a permanent case of blue balls. I ended up simply seeing that my frustration was not worth the benefit of us being a couple. This was so hard to do as when I would kiss her after a date and walk back to my dorm I felt amazing. Love is a strong feeling. Its a pity that people use sex as currency and can't be more mature about it. But that's what people do. My advice is weigh out your options. There are plenty of more people out there for you, but its hard to break up with someone you love. Is the frustration worth it?

However maybe you got lucky and simply are with a girl who is afraid to have sex as it jeopardizes the relationship. For this, you just need to convince her that there is no relationship w/o sex.

[Burner of trees]

if you are over 21, get her drunk.

if you are under 21, find a way to get her drunk.

sadly, it should work. alchohol is the devil!!!11 devil=horniness by the way

[tedkennedy]

i think the problem you are facing is that you dont realise no means yes. a little date rape never killed anybody.

but seriously, all you can really do is let her take her time. if its just not worth the effort then just say fuckit and presume life as normal. a girlfriend without sex is pointless.

[clive]

From looking at your past posts I think the reason why she doesn't want to do anything with you is obvious.

[dankasoarous07]

theirs some other girls that like me and will do those sorts of things with me but......i like this girl alot and she likes me and i dont look at those girls the same way i look at this one,fuck i dont know,i could be gettting some from the oter few i have in mind and have me in mind.....i think ill just go with it,we talked some last night she said she wanted too and verything but she said the truth was that she was nervous.like i almost laughed a little but i understood it so im sensing shgell get over the whole nervous thing.

[K10]

you just have to get her horny enough to overcome her anxiety. Use your tongue.

[SamTheHippie]

from a girls perspective, maybe she's just nervous and doesnt want to rush into it. give her time and it'll happen eventually. for now just stick with the kissing and feeling up and in time it will show some results.

[KrunkHaus]

Step 1: Stick your hand down her pants while you're making out.

[Mango]

Dude wtf, respect her don't be a fucking cunt. Relationships arn't always about sex.

[Flamingnun]

[surf*and*smoke]

Originally Posted by Mango

Relationships arn't always about sex.

when you're young they damn well better be atleast some of the time


fuck looking for a future wife at 17

[generic_hippie]

sucks to be you

doesn't suck to be her




seriously though, plenty of messed up people out there, the question you have to ask yourself is "do I want a project, or do I want a root?"

If'n you decide that somebody who's got a psychology degree would be better able to help her excorsize her demons and become a whole person, then dump her and find somebody who isn't fucked up, (or at least is fucked up about something less important to a teenage boy than sex).

[vanilla]

Dont force it but make her feel comfortable enough to talk about it openly
if you can't get her to do that you can always flip it on her and say youre done not only because shes so damn stuck up but after 2 months of a seemingly great start to a relationship she isnt even comfortable enough with you to talk about fooling around then she isn't the kind of girl you were looking to get involved with
might freak her out and shell come running to you wanting to work it out, or she can just not be fucking some other guy when you've found some other girl
try that on for size

[AlteredStateGrl]

Um, find someone who puts out? If that's what you're after for the most part. You can't make her play ball.